How Being A Conventionally "Pretty" Girl Has Affected My Life (Page 2)
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I know I only hold doors for girls these days if they are on crutches, unless I want to check out their body close up. What better excuse than holding the door? Everyone thinks I am just being polite.
But the serious aspect of this should be kept in mind. Girls are still pigeonholed, largely, based on their looks here in the good old USA. As she says in the Take, she has opportunities others lack, but those come with expectations and burdens--sleeping with the 'right' men, mainly.
Great take, very insightful. I can relate.
But I still think that regardless, the conventionally attractive have it a lot easier than the conventionally unattractive.
Just remember to always look on the bright side, and to count your blessings.
You look pretty plain... not sure how you relate to it. You do know every girl is told by their family that she is pretty etc? And by their friends lol.
@Jamesol1 Well that's your opinion, so be quiet because I don't want to hear it.
Erm free speech... make me? What are you going to do? Nothing. If I has the chance to say this to you in person you wouldn't nor couldn't do anything.
@Jamesol1 I'd walk away if this happened in person, so I'd never have to encounter you again. Unfortunately, the only sure way I can do this on the internet is by blocking you.
No girl should ever not want to feel unattractive. I believe that you are not understanding most men. Men naturally feel protective over attractive women. It is not that we don't think you can't handle yourself weather in sports or just walking to the store. It is in our DNA. And as my wife says women naturally hate women, to be competitive for a man's attention even if they never want a relationship with them. Guys are visual beings, we are naturally drawn to pretty, and secure women. Not clingy disorganized people.
Boohoo. My life is hard because I'm pretty. Be thankful you aren't a baby girl in China.
Or a man anywhere.
China recently relaxed the rules to fight the aging population and no one to take care of them... Dec 2015... couples can have 2 kids now. Nothing to be said of females, it's "you get whatever you have."
Interesting.
I once new a couple of models who said similar things.
I dated one of them for a while. I was the first man to ever take her to dinner and the first man to ever send her a rose.
That blew my mind.
In the end, she left me for a man who had more to offer (financially). Female hypergamy wins again.
Regardless of gender, the fact is conventionally attractive people have it much easier than the conventionally ugly.
There are tradeoffs to everything and it is helpful to share as most people don't think about the negatives of being pretty. I'll bet you've lost guys because you are too intimidating.
You may be focusing too much on it though, many things apply if you are just a girl, or just a (whatever). I'd hold a door open for a girl/woman, pretty or not, if I want to for my reason, to be nice, helpful, to strike up a conversation, because she sparked my interest.
I go trough that too but my country is slighty different people are nice to (escpecially men) and even if I made a mistake and do something wrong at work peaople will always forgive me (boss and customer). Being beatiful have more advantage than bad sides
What i got from this take I'm so HOT that everyone is concern i'll get raped because men can't keep their hands off of me or i can't trust any guy because all guys want to bang me. Also every woman i come across is jealous of me because I'm so much hotter than them.
You obviously need to reread it then i suggest glasses? maybe contact lenses? how about we get you a brain transplant so we can get rid of some of that stupid too :)
@PoppyAE And you obviously need to grow up to not know when someone is bragging.
I'm not saying that being beautiful doesn't have its drawbacks. However, I believe the benefits outweigh the drawbacks.
Is GAG just for those suffere from PMS or Poor Me Syndrome and victim culture ie im a victim of my good looks lmao.
https://youtu.be/EBZYylhg9Io
Goddamn it xD His face at the end >.<
Ok seriously be happy that you are pretty, I'm not pretty like you and I get treated like dirt from guys and other people cause of my appearance it hard to change up my looks and personality so people can assume me in a better way.
Surprisingly all "anonymous under 18" girls claim to be beautiful...
Its because they know they will be judged, whats wrong with being confident and thinking your beautiful shouldn't everyone think their beautiful
@PoppyAE Thank you <3
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Okay. Nice point of view...
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When a girl who works at a store is being nice to me i just figure she is probably just doing her job and I hold the door open for everyone, not just pretty girls, so maybe some of it is just in your head or it least the people around who aren't treating you like a person but a pretty girl.
eh, life's too short to worry. Eat pizza instead :^) also fuck em! Who cares what they think? At the end of the day we live as we dream, Alone. You live your life by yourself, You die by yourself (speaking in terms of it's between You and Your Body) So why should you care about the other peeps in between? Live life with no worries about what others think... And also Pizza! \(^-^)/
I understand everything you're saying, and I'm sorry you've been affected this way too. Many girls deal with this.
Apart from men being nice to you and you wondering whether they are real gentlemen or just horny, I dont agree with you. It has been proven that attractive women are hired easily for jobs and get more favours from people especially men.
Yes, she states that, but at what cost?
- > She never knows her real value
can't they be gentlemen and horny.
@Spermdumster666 you're not you when you're horny
@Spermdumster666 I am not a man but I think so no they can't be both. Yeah sure they can like and admire you and be a gentleman with you!
sounds like you want your pussy placed on a pedestal?
@Spermdumster666 yeah I am modest and actually do want guys to reslect me 😊
*respect.
worship more like
While being very attractive myself, I've experienced some of these, esp with other women insecurities, not all though. But its not so bad because once people get to know you they should see you for who you are. Unless you are stuck up. The work thing though? Really? Never been treated like that at work. No problem with family either. Shouldn't complain, its a blessing, be happy.
Don't be dumb. If you were ugly you'd be depressed.
I mean I'm told I'm pretty and I don't really agree with you. Yeah some of the things you mentioned can be a little annoying- but it's a hell of a lot better than being considered ugly.
Your sort of average. Most women who are average - very attractive are told many things and seeked out from men wanting to bone.
@Jamesol1 lol i know i'm not average. And no guy tells me things to just "bone" considering i'm a virgin. Great assumption tho.
You being a virgin is a silly arugment. Men will try to 'woe' you to get in your pants... i never said you slept with them. What kind of logic is that? I'm just saying your nose and the bit under your nose is big/puffy. I'd say 5/10... 6/10 if you put a lot of effort in.
@Jamesol1 lmao... if only I cared about your opinion. by the way my nose is a bit bone-y, if anything.
I posted the picture on another forum and most men said average... some said ugly... one said pretty (out of 20ish men). Just saying I can link you it if you want.
@Jamesol1 lol okay
@Jamesol1 so where's that link?
I got warned by an admin... I'm not allowed to post it. you can try searching it up...
@Jamesol1 send it through messenger