Lessons of Jealousy

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We maybe don’t want to admit it but we all get jealous at times. It’s a fact that we get sometimes terrible jealous. Yes, also you. Yes, me too!

· Jealous on what someone is!

· Jealous on what someone does!

· Jealous beacuse someone is better!

· Jealous because someone has more friends!

· Jealous on what someone has!

Lessons of jealousy

But we are learning from a young age that jealousy is a negative emotion and that we shouldn’t be jealous. This negative view on jealousy isn’t completely right. Because our jealousy can teach us something, it gives us honest and clear information about ourselves. When jealousy means that you begrudge someone something then it is a negative emotion yes. But when your jealousy encourage you to work on yourself then it will be something very usefull. So instead of telling yourself not to be jealous because it’s bad, research these thoughts of jealousy and learn from it.

What you jealous about is most likely that what you want, that what you desire. So when you don’t push your emotions of jealousy away but discover them you can find out what you really want from deep inside. When you know what you really want you can start to work towards that what you desire.

Being jealous can make you become a happier person when it makes you want to study or train harder or to develop some (new) skills.

Jealousy in a relationship

Lessons of Jealousy

During the time I am a member of the GAG community I have seen many people who are dealing with jealousy in relationships. This can be a very serious thing because jealousy doesn’t just negatively impact the relationship but often also your everyday life.

Lessons of Jealousy

Take a step back and think about the real problem. Maybe it’s a sign that something isn’t really right in the relationship. Or maybe you are just a jealous person of nature. When you know what the real problem is – the relationship/your partner or you – then you can make steps for making positive changes. Work on your relationship or on yourself.

Lessons of Jealousy

Lessons of Jealousy
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