What does it mean when a guy calls you sexy?

[Anonymous]

Ok guys so what does it mean when you call a girl sexy, does it mean you don't think she is beautiful and that you only find her body attractive.

[justbanANNAz]

usuallly… usually its about ur physical appearance.. ur sex appeal.
but honestly, men can mean anything by this because they find all sort of things sexy.

intelligence
independence
humour
her smile
her laugh
her voice
charisma
maturity..

i could go on for days lol. honestly, if i wanna know i will simply giggle and say 'haha what makes u think that?' :) and he'll tell me=]

[Asker]

I asked and he was like everything ON you are sexy.

[justbanANNAz]

on….
yup, he's another shallow one.

[Asker]

Man can be such assholes.

[justbanANNAz]

tell me about it-.-

[handsomelad70]

He's probably after your body, girlfriend.

[Slavanna]

Um... that just means he thinks she's attractive. Come on now, this is not a high school literature test question, that's a very straightforward sentence.

[cavmanier]

It means I find her body attractive in a sexual way. That's pretty much the ultimate form off attraction IMO. Beautiful, to me, just means attractive. Sexy means attractive and would like to see you naked ect.

[knotme]

Really, I never thought of it that way

[cavmanier]

That's the way I look at it. Yeah some women think of it in a negative way though. Probably because a lot are hyper paranoid about being used for sex.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Guys call girls sexy doesn't mean he wants sex from you
i do it cause i find the girl attracted

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

It's not saying your not sexy cause you most likely are it's form to tell a girl we are attracted to her

[Asker]

but why don't you just tell her you find her attractive

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

It's form of flirtation, for example were talking on Skype okay?
I tell you one morning hello sexy hows your day going? Yes, i'm
attracted to you but the spare of moment i'm just using that type of expression of attraction

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

It doesn't mean i'm wanting sex

[Asker]

I really hope he meant it like that. I guess all guys have different meanings and intensions when calling a girl sexy.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Yes sure that's what he means
if he acts too sexual than
you need to tell him to back off
that's it making you uncomfortable

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Thank you for Most Helpful: XD

[lightbulb27]

she's broadcasting mating phermones...

it means she's doing a great job manipulating men.

[SolitarySolace]

If only men knew they were being manipulated and considered it a bad thing.

[lightbulb27]

@SolitarySolace yes but it's part of the natural order to ensure propagation. The hormones are in control of the brain, not the other way around it seems...

[SolitarySolace]

Well obviously, that doesn’t mean it’s a good thing

[lightbulb27]

@SolitarySolace no, that's why you have friends to help you see more clearly... girls know how to be "seen". Bible had that within 3 chapters... and that's right after ounding of the universe! didn't take long:-)

[SolitarySolace]

Girls know how to be seen? Lol they know how to be seen fucking naked all over the internet and cry when they’re called hookers or prostitutes when that’s exactly what they are

[lightbulb27]

@SolitarySolace Correct. They are are something aren't they. Takes some time to understand them. If you didn't have sisters, mom, or raise a girl, you missed out on a lot. I learn a lot watching teen grow up.
It makes total sense... at the deepest level, they "want someone else intimattely in them". They will expose themselves, their skin, etc.. to attract. They may feel shame and such and insecure about it too and may deflect or feel shame. They may blame others and be indirect and act like they aren't doing it.
It's the essence of the embryo...
Just love them... thats the man's job. not going to change them.

[SolitarySolace]

A man’s job is to love them? Why?

[SolitarySolace]

Why give them something they don’t deserve

[SolitarySolace]

Why give them something they’ll just exploit for personal gain?

[SolitarySolace]

Is that what men are for? To be slaves to women and girls? That’s pathetic

[lightbulb27]

@SolitarySolace that imagery is negative. We have a job, it's to love the woman. That's it. That can be done in servitude and strength, not slave. Don't want women walking all over you. Their job is to respect the man. It's a dance.
If can't do that, stay single til you can because it just be a mess...

[SolitarySolace]

Women don’t respect men, where have you been? All I got for loving women was cheated on and falsely accused and used for $1,000 you can’t tell me women are worth it. I’ve been single by choice for 9 years and have been telling men to do the same but nooo they just have to love women and marry them and end up living under her boot and he’s just supposed to smile and take it? Hell no fuck that

[SolitarySolace]

If men want to be dumbass dickheaded idiots go for it I’ll be avoiding fucking jail by staying home alone with my cat

[lightbulb27]

@SolitarySolace sorry to hear that, be very painful. Realize that women go through the same at times or worse. Pain is a great teacher... the lesson was stay away from all women, but that's not true. Lesson is learn why you are attracting and not filtering out such women. Probably a "nice" guy... and that's bad.
Yea, I'm happily married and better off now. There are no guarantees in life, but it's going well and I'm thankful. At younger age, I was also the cat man... and stayed away from women.

[SolitarySolace]

I understand that women go through the same at times or worse and know what? They blame men! I’m not allowed to blame or criticize women? I’m supposed to love them and at the same time let them use the law to destroy my life? Love them and let them be condescending? Why? That’s giving them what they want! They want attention and I’m supposed to feed it to them? Aren’t we supposed to punish bad behavior? Not marry it?

[lightbulb27]

@SolitarySolace you can critizize women and specifically a woman, but people don't see their flaws so well nor do they want to change. They are people and in some ways more complex, emotional, and hormonally variable. Such is reality.
I don't know enough of your scenario to say what happened and why. It would certainly challenge your sense of trust and I'd wonder if that was a one off or consistent pattern of whom you drawn. I'd look to myself more than the other. It's all learning lesson. You'd need a secure well trained person if you were to do pursue again.
If you can get through life only losing $1000 to someone whom lies, you've done extremely well.
There are really good quality women out there, but takes a lot of fiiltering... and I seriously doubt those ones will be playing the "sexy" card. I've never trusted those types.

[SolitarySolace]

This is exactly what gives women the condescending entitlement complexes that allows them to think they can hate on men and get away with it. Men like you perpetuate it by saying shit like what you just said.

[SolitarySolace]

If you were to have been cheated on in in every relationship you’d been in and told it’s your fault for picking them without knowing they’d cheat, how would that make you feel? If you were to attempt to give women one last try and end up falsely accused, served an ex parte PPO and wake up every morning scared shitless to the point of dry heaving into your toilet until the day of the court hearing where you’re told you can’t do shit about it how would you feel?

[SolitarySolace]

Oh but it can’t be all bad because they’re not all like that, right? Yeah, tell that to the guy who is afraid of women. Then tell him he has a victim complex. Wouldn’t it piss you off to feel like you can’t do shit no matter what you say you’re just continuously beat down until you just give up and give the devil what they want?

[SolitarySolace]

I guess you’d never understand what it truly feels like to hate an entire gender with so your being because people keep perpetuating it in you

[lightbulb27]

there's a lot here to unpack. How many is ‘every’? I know a woman whom cheats and won't stop…and i know why. I know a guy that lies continuously. These all human issues. Answer that as well… what is your worldview of humanity? Christian, etc…

[lightbulb27]

I know plenty of feelings of abuse but didn't have this specific one as you have.

[SolitarySolace]

What’s my worldview of humanity? I believe there are more bad people in the world compared to good. I believe majority of those bad people are women. https://youtu.be/Zg8DfeDw04I?si=XRXlBtphwf3wmtF7

[SolitarySolace]

Maybe that video might explain things better than I can

[lightbulb27]

@SolitarySolace If that video is how you view life, not much I say is going to help you. I do not see that video in my reality, at all. It may be true in areas.
The issue of being cheated on multiple times... that feel awful and you don't deserve that. Any trauma like that would be impactful, no wonder the refrain from women.
But to me it isn't about blame, it's about probability of outcomes. I know plenty of people not cheating. I know some that have. Anytime there is repetition, one has to look at themselves. That is the lesson I apply to myself. Anyone can get unlucky once, maybe even twice. But as such, the value is in the inner self and change in my experience.
I had the same issue with snakes... one bit me, and I detested them all. That is not fair nor right... but it is human. I had to overcome that fear. You can do the same, by facing the challenge of what happened, finding the value in it, and growing so you make better choices. It's the only thing you control.
that's my opinion for what it's worth.

[SolitarySolace]

All I'm hearing is that I should embrace the very thing I have grown to hate. Not gonna happen

[lightbulb27]

@SolitarySolace Normal human. Last I'll say. Wounds control! If you wanted to move forward towards someone, I'd say... it's fixable with understanding and healing, but it's work to dig through what happened, do the repair. I say that because... the reality of "find mate", hormones, and resolution of love... does not go stop, it just gets displaced for some time. If you had trauma going to get a drink of water... three times in a row, I guarantee you'd eventually go back to drinking something. Ya can't turn either of those off. Maybe become a monk or priest and suppress the desires, but it's wounds controlling, not what all mighty made you to be.
But it's your life and your timing. I do not buy that video, although yes... kids are being screwed with today.
See what happens when women play the sex card... haha!

[SolitarySolace]

Why is it so hard to understand that I don't want to find love? I don't want to live under the boot of a woman. I don't want to deal with heartache again. I don't want to get married and end up divorced and forced to give the bitch money and resources that I worked hard to obtain for myself. I don't want to have children because they wouldn't really be mine that's be hers according to the courts and society itself. The way I view it myself and men in general get absolutely nothing good it of having a relationship with a fucking woman. It pisses me off that people expect me to find someone as if it's going to happen. If it does I'm going to kill her

[lightbulb27]

@SolitarySolace Because I did that for my own reasons, it's life based upon fear. Nothing is achieved with that mentality. If you are 50+, then maybe ok.. you can avoid women. If you are young... you can avoid what is in essence... fear of pain, but like I said, you can't deny yourself water for very long. The women will come around...
In hindsight... my lessons learned when I suffered pain was "I needed to evolve and grow". Ignoring the signals just postpones til another day.
I respect your right to do so, but I'm just saying doesn't sound like reality. I wouldn't force you into something you aren't ready for given the pain.
What's happened is that the worlds corruption "took you out of the game" of life... Clearly you wanted, but the risk of pain is great. That's unfortunate... but how the world works.
Find Christ if you haven't... that be step 1 to anywhere else... (and I'm not saying that is perfect either or such women are... that's a whole discussion itself... but repair yourself is the point so you live out of love, not fear.)
I'm full of opinions, just passing on what I lived... take what you wish. I don't force horses to drink...

[SolitarySolace]

Why does everyone have to find love? Why can't people like me just avoid it entirely without being told "oh you don't know what you're talking about you'll find someone eventually" I honestly hate myself because I might someday I'd sooner kill myself than find a bitch

[SolitarySolace]

What you seem to not understand is its possible for people to want to die alone

[SolitarySolace]

I'm not saying everyone should buy you're programming is pissing off those who do want to die alone

[lightbulb27]

@SolitarySolace I can totally understand wanting to die alone, I've felt that... people do... your life really that bad? It's from seeing how bad humans are. Again, I'd say... wounds control. God (love) heals that... that's my experience. And yes... life, love, relationships... have pain.
You don't have to find someone, the Bible... not to go branching to religion but just saying centuries ago... said..."don't get married... if you do, you'll suffer... but if you are burning in your desires get married". I'd have to lookup the verse. In context, it makes sense.
Again... which is stronger... fear or love, that's your battle.
You don't have to do anything... nobody is pushing you off a cliff... it's a leap of faith. What I am saying is... something went wrong early, or training issues, just unlucky, and now that has put you in a state of mind you don't want anything to do with it. Normal! To "prove your" conclusion, you find information that validates your viewpoint. (human.. but not true!) I can find as many people that are doing really well married... including Ben Shapiro in that video.
When you get your perspective correct over life and more understanding, such challenges are much easier to handle. Maybe it will take a few decades for you... it did for me. And if not... it's your life. But don't live it out of fear is my general statement.
You might be well served to turn off all media and meet real people, find new, real people to engage with. Pets as you found, are a good place to start.
hey... I wouldn't jump in the water if I was bitten by a shark... we're all the same. But mating hormones are strong motivators.

[SolitarySolace]

I'm waiting to make a poll about this because I already posted 3 polls and have to wait an excruciating 24 hours to post any more polls. There's this onlyfans prostitute to became a millionare and suddenly found god. Got baptized and everything. Do you honestly believe she found God or is she a false prophet? I 100% believe she's a false prophet. Anyone who thinks she found God are false Christians

[lightbulb27]

@SolitarySolace If I don't know her, I won't judge her, pray for her.. and turn that crap off. It's possible, but it's a process as well...
I've know plenty whom did find God, whom were doing really wicked things to others and themselves, each had their motivations. One guy was killed people.
People do things because they are broken inside... that's what God heals, what Christ came to address.
There's nothing wrong with a woman being sexy, but when they play that ot the max, it's too much... something is "up". You have to learn how to look at women to see past their charade, that take a lot of fear away so you don't get baited. Women are tricky... don't trust them in general... manipulative. you figured that already...

[Anonymous]

If the guy is really horny it means: I want to fuck you! Please get undressed ASAP.
Otherwise it means: I would not mind fucking with you!

beautiful attractive sexy are synonyms for the average guy for most of us they are interchangeable and means we are sexually attracted to you.

If you want someone who loves you for something other than you body like your character, dress like a lady and join a church.

[Asker]

I do dress like a lady, I don't even like wearing short skirts or low cut tops cause it makes me uncomfortable.

[loladevine]

What if you’re atheist and dislike modest clothing? Do you think joining a church would technically change your character? Should you change yourself for other people or do you have a different suggestion for those kinds of people?

[SolitarySolace]

It probably means he wants to have sex with you. I’ve never called a woman sexy before in my life. But that’s because I’m aromantic asexual and find sexually intercourse revolting. 🤷🏻‍♂️ the human body is a disgusting gas-filled sack I don’t understand how people can love a body.

[Anonymous]

maybe he just feels uncomfortable saying beautiful and gorgeous.. I feel uncomfortable callin my boyfriend handsome, its not that I don't think he is, its just that the word don't seem right coming out of my mouth lolz same with calling him baby.. or babe

[mommymommymommy]

I try to call her both. I may not say it in person, either of them, and i really should, but, it's nerve racking to do it in person, it's just easier to type it. However, yes, I realize if a guy never says beautiful that it sounds like he just likes your body or whatever. I don't think it means that, but, I do think that men should use the b word more, and women should use the h word more.

[Xoirwinkan]

This sounds like such a classic female issue. Wondering what a guy means when it's very straightforward. Sexy in this context almost always means your body or how you move your body. Calling a girl sexy does not detract from anything else she has going on, like being smart, it's just one facet he is complimenting.

[the_cheshire_cat]

In my experience those words are just flirt words, like hun, sweetie etc. Doesn't always mean the person likes you.

[cjwright79]

It means that he does not possess the intelligence or emotional capacity to see or appreciate your other, non-sexual aspects.

[Prilee1992]

He's saying I wanna put you onto my bed so we're gonna have a sweet sweet passionate sex

[SoJust]

everyone's understanding of beauty is different, but for me, I think a woman who wears black panties underneath or a woman who wears white panties is sexier.

[AviatorTom]

Sexy means that the woman is physically attractive, and has a personality that exudes sex.

[emzy-89]

Sexy is purely in relation to the person liking your body.

[Anonymous]

He thinks she's sexy. Honestly, you can't really get a higher complement then that.

[scbigmac07]

I disagree. sexy is great and all, but you don't get better than gorgeous. sexy means you're willing to have sex with her. Gorgeous is like the girl just blew your mind with how she looks. I rarely use that word. I mean come on, if you really think that sexy is the best compliment in the world, then you have some learning to do. I mean even beautiful is better than sex.

[Opinion Owner]

That's your interpretation of the words. All guys are going to rank those words in a different order.

[82lynx]

@scbigmac07 There’s only one girl I think of as gorgeous at the moment, and for quite some time now I’ve wondering if the terms “hot” and “sexy” are even accurate in terms of how my attraction works. I could just look at her and swoon all day, but I haven’t any interest in bedding her. I would like to see her top half naked—a LOT actually—but that wouldn’t be the case if I didn’t think of her as gorgeous. If I were fortunate enough for that to happen I could just pull into self-serve and be satisfied, having enjoyed that wonderful view so much and being incredibly grateful for it.

[Quigly]

It means you look like a girl and not a guy. Intelligence and personality can certainly add to the appeal.

[Anonymous]

It probably doesn't mean anything since he's not ready to commit. Just words

[Anonymous]

I don't use the word sexy or hot as I find them tacky words to use, but when my friend uses the word sexy or hot, it means he just wants sex with them and nothing more.

[Mikey805]

If i call a woman sexy I’m implying she is gorgeous and beautiful

[BLP11520]

You look good and look like what we have been programmed to like sexually

[Betwyn]

That he wants to fuck you.

[ImAAsshole]

Your body is nice. You answered your own question.