I have big boobs and guys and even girls stare at them. It makes me self conscious.
Girls with big boobs do you feel insecure when guys stare at your boobs?
I never stare at breasts during conversation, but sometimes I just get lost in some pretty girl, somewhere in my field of vision. . One thing leads to another, and all of the sudden, I catch myself staring.
I think I speak for most guys, when I say, that we generally want women and girls to feel comfortable around us - and in general.
Sometimes it seems as though women think we're always thinking of sex, probably something specific and nasty, when we look at you. I can't speak for other men, but I rarely get beyond the "oh wow", or "god she's gorgeous", or "that's exactly"-stage, much less to any raunchy fantasies.
Mostly, I think we just really like you. And breasts. Everyone loves breats.
I can appreciate how having a pair that's constantly stared at, might be problematic. Faces are much more interesting anyway.
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Why does it make you self-conscious? You should take it as a compliment because it means that the guys like your boobs and the girls are jealous. Double win. Also, guys stare because we are naturally programmed to be attracted to them. It's like girls love to stare at cute guys with awesome abs. It's natural instinct.
It makes me uncomfortable lol! I have double d boobs, so I am always getting stares and it just makes me uncomfortable, well I think when anyone focus on any part of your body you are going to feel uncomfortable weather it's your stomach, your legs, your nose, your butt etc etc. I know a lot of guys that are very subtle about it, and then there are guys who don't give a fuck, and will just full on stare at your boobs, and that is the most uncomfortable hahahaha. Yeah, I know all guys do it, but I feel you girl, it does make you feel self conscious, and it sucks. What I tell myself is that "Well they are admiring my boobs" lol, that seems to ease me and I am not as uncomfortable and self conscious, but I totally feel you! It is, but just keep thinking to yourself "They are admiring my boobs though" Haha, and hopefully that helps! :)
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Not really insecure, just creeped out and slightly insulted (especially since I actually prefer to dress modestly). A quick flicker down is alright as I understand we are all human. But staring and talking to them? You're going in the right direction for a face punch.
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Do this when they stare:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oWF68N_yBl8
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I feel very uncomfortable when guys stare at mine! Like it happen when I started going to college! I was walking around campus and guys would be staring at my boobs! I would get hugs from 2 guys and they would say I have nice boobs! I'm thinking in my head ewww what a perv! If you get people staring at your boobs! They just like what they see and want to get in your pants and flirt with you! That's why I would wear a coat if I were you and zip it up so it's not showing! Lol
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My boobs are a C cup but on my frame they look a big bigger and I get very insecure, I do my best to keep them as covered and strapped down as possible lol :)
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When men stare at your breasts, it's not because they are TRYING to make you feel uncomfortable, it's because it's instinct. Actually, you should take it as a compliment when men stare at your breasts, and even women! Because if women are staring, then that means they are jealous. So go out there and flaunt what you have, and have fun!
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They'll stare because you're stand out and its attractive, both reasons really. You're pretty and theey take notice
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Well it's what guys usually do, don't worry too much about it unless you feel it's starting to get a little creepy.
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No, be happy about them. I have big boobs too but I don't get insecure when people stare, it's like they're giving me a compliment (most of the time)
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Not really. I've gotten used to it. Sometimes I'll call the guys out just to see them turn red in the face, other times I'm just like "eh".
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Depends if they're fanciful or not. If they're mid-aged/old, then yeah, gross.
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Sometimes but I kinda don't mind as long they don't touch. .. /:
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Yes. I feel insecure, sad and uncomfortable. It seems that I'm not important for them, only my boobs are.
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They're just admiring your chest. Take it as a compliment
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I don't like it at times but hey what are you to do you can't control them
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I feel weird when. Guys tell me what size are my boobs and say great boobs
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I find it as a compliment but if it is for a long time I get very uncomfortable... especially when they don't admit it.
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you shouldn't feel insecure when guys stare at them you should be glad. big boobs are awesome.
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I just give them death stare
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Not insecure, just uncomfortable.
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They can look but not touch.
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