My friend told me I have d**k sucking lips?

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One day, at school, we was sitting down and having breakfast with one of our other friends, and randomly, she was like "Don't take this the wrong way, but you have d**k sucking lips."
Inside, I was very angry, but instead of getting mad, I just said "ok" and kept eating. 
What is wrong with her? I wanted to tell her off!

BTW, I'm not into that stuff- never done it before and I never will.

hina_hanta · Accepted Answer

I think people on here can be jerks (although others were nice, but still). I think you have the right to write whatever on here as long as it doesn't demean someone else (which you aren't, you're just expressing yourself). :)
Anyways, As far as the girl's comment goes, I feel you, it was inappropriate. That's an inappropriate thing to say to someone; she could've just said "You have nice lips!" and left it at that. Still, I'm curious as to whether she may have issues with communication/social skills. Maybe she was nervous and didn't know how to say it otherwise. I would confront her about it, though, because still it wasn't very appropriate to say, especially in public. Stay calm, keep an even tone, and just calmly confront her. Try to leave "you" statements out of it (i. e., try saying something like "Hey, I felt really insulted by that comment about my lips. I know it was probably meant as a compliment, but it still hurt." Try to maintain a calm tone. If things start blowing up, tell her "I think we should take a break, cool off, and talk about this later." And then go for a walk or something.
I'm not saying this is definitely going to work (as it didn't work with my mom, but it works with others I try it with), but I'm not sure if she is the type who would blow up about it or not. Still, it's something you could try if you're willing to (no pressure, just something to think about). :D Good luck!

Brunette-Bombshell · Accepted Answer

I would like my boyfriend to say that to me... If my boyfirend would say to me that I would feel flattered, and I would take it as a compliment, but if one of my friends would tell me that, I think I would be very offended... maybe she didn't mean to hurt you or to offend you. Maybe she was trying to say that you have beautiful full lips...

thunthunthun · Accepted Answer

This is funny to me because in high school we use to say that to each other all the time as a joke..
You can defo just ask or tell her to cut it out.

I remember when I was young saying that I would never suck a dick because it was gross lmao oh how times have changed. :X

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

it depends on how close you are with that girl. I guess that if you are really close you'd have an expectation regarding the language she uses.
But this is one of those things that are rude and complimenting at the same time. I think you should see the bright side. she really meant to say you have beautiful juicy lips. Those kind of lips that you just want to play with all day and feel them all over the body. She couldn't have said "i'd fucking want to kiss you", so she came up with that.. But trust me if she took time to say something about your lips, she is jealous.
Your reaction was ok i guess. You could have gone "and what is that supposed to mean? ". And she would have probably cleared things up for you.

Longshot · Accepted Answer

First, it probably means you have big full lips. Second she is jealous of that. Third the fact that you have never done this with a guy is fine, but the fact that you reject it is shallow. Giving and receiving oral pleasure is called... NORMAL. You might give it a chance before you simply reject it.

BassistForever · Answer

I've gotten that comment before. Although it was from someone I planned on sleeping with so it didn't really make me mad.  Also, what the hell? you're not into dick sucking? LAME. >_>

dominiquois · Answer

It means you have a nice pair of full lips that men would find sexy. That's a compliment of sorts. You're a virgin I see... not a problem just know she didn't mean anything by it and she wasn't calling you a tramp.

DodgersGM · Answer

Are you trying to figure out how to respond or what to say to her?

If you are, then just tell her how the comment made you feel, and I'm sure she'll apologize. And even better, she'll know how to behave and you going forward.

xHoneyxBeex · Answer

Did she mean it in a rude way or was she joking? I can understand why it may have upset you but was she trying to be mean? Perhaps, she didn't think it would make you mad.

JustinCaseUDontKnow · Answer

She was in the wrong to even be thinking of you in that way she was wrong to tell you that stuff i think you need eliminate her as a friend or find better people out there to hang out with

kambo_trick3y · Answer

Wait... is THAT what DSL MEANS? I always told people I have Fiber Internet...

Hannah591 · Answer

It means you have big lips. I always got told I had BJ lips in school and still do now. It's a compliment.

Folklore · Answer

she just sounds like a bitch... but she did tell you not to take it the wrong way. so you probably shouldnt.

TadCurious · Answer

So even after you get married you won't give your husband a blowjob? Really?

AidenBlue · Answer

You should get out and use them!! It's a compliment not an insult. Too bad you are so against it -90% of straight women do it for their BFs.

523206720 · Answer

Cut her off and if she values the friendship she will ask you what is wrong.

AnimeDreama · Answer

This is the second question I've seen today about dick sucking lips LOL

GrowStrong · Answer

lol its a compliment i think? i mean, when i see a girl with nice lips i do think to myself she has dick sucking lips.

SuperNurse42 · Answer

"never done it before and I never will" I feel sorry for your future husband.

zombiebabe · Answer

maybe she is just jealous because you have more fuller lips than her...

Anonymous · Answer

Umm, we don't know. Did you try asking HER about it if you're really that curious to know? Or did you just come here to vent about it?

Anonymous · Answer

she's probably heard that many times and they weren't talking about the lips on her mouth... what a bitch

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Having DSL isn't a bad thing. Think Angelina Jolie. It's just a phrase for full lips.

Anonymous · Answer

Must mean you have full, lovely, attractive lips, but she shouldn't have said something so crude.

Anonymous · Answer

you have dick sucking lips and you're never going to suck dick? what a shame.

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