Boyfriend likes other girls photos on instagram and Facebook but never mine?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend always likes photos of other girls on Instagram and Facebook, the latest girl being about 3 years younger than us. Him and I have been on and off for about 3 years and official for almost 1.5 years. He always tells me how beautiful I am and how much he loves me but he always likes other girls' photos and never mine? When I talk to him about how it bothers me he says I'm overreacting and he can like what he wants which is fair enough, but I'm getting really paranoid. When we're in person he tries really hard to make me feel good about myself and make sure I know I'm loved and I'm beautiful.

Am I overreacting? Do likes on a photo mean anything?

NB: He never comments on girls' photos

I'm overreacting

I should be worried

[loveisbeautiful]

Let me ask you this. What seems better to you, him "liking" your instagram and
Facebook photos or when he see's you telling you how beautiful you are to your
face. Which is better, in the long run?

I know right now, since you're young. Things like your boyfriend not liking your
pages seem like a big deal. I promise though, when you get older it won't be
a big deal. You'll realize that him telling you how beautiful you are, when ever
he sees you or sending you a text or an e-mail saying he was just thinking
about you and misses you. Are gonna mean a lot more, then liking one
of your photos on a social networking site.

As for now, I don't think you're overreacting and I also don't think you have
anything to worry about. You've got a classic case of "you're dating a teenage
boy" lol. Teenage boys like to look at girls, older boys like to look at girls.
Just like girls like to look at boys, at any age. I know it's upsetting. However,
as long as he looks and he doesn't touch or act on anything. You have nothing
to worry about, it's just normal guy stuff. So, don't lose any sleep over this, kiddo.
It's gonna be fine, okay? Hope I helped you some : )

[Asker]

I've realised I have to be more mature about the situation and this helped me so much thank you!!

[loveisbeautiful]

You're welcome : )

[leslie33]

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months and I'm 27 years old and divorced my boyfriend likes a million other girls pics on fb n instagram. all the time. And he will post of us on his then hide them from his timeline then I'll even tag him in pics but he puts it so it dosent show on his page just mine. I've even caught him talking to other girls and he tells me not to worry cause I'm always with him and my stuffs at his house. But always hides his phone and goes through mine constantly.

[XRabbitHeartX]

Don't let the social media world get in between you and your guy. If he makes you feel beautiful in real life then it's all that matters. A like doesn't mean anything. I've seen people like pictures all the time of other people but that doesn't mean they like their partner less. Sometimes it's just a good/pretty photo that is pleasing to the eye. Nothing more is meant by it.

[Asker]

That's what he says, just needed an opinion

[XRabbitHeartX]

Next time you see pics of hot guys then just like their pics too.. if he can't hold it in then neither should you :)

[Asker]

I always refuse to like guys pictures because I know how shitty it feels. I don't think he would care if I liked other guys pics because he knows I'm completely in love with him

[XRabbitHeartX]

Do you think he's completely in love with you too? Because if so then I think you should feel the same way as he does about it.

[Asker]

Yes, we talk of getting married and going to college together

[anonymousxyz]

I mean why should you care, he shows that he loves you in person. Now if he did the same with other girls maybe but if not then don't worry. Honestly a girl who doesn't trust me isn't that attractive so try to trust him because probably he just really likes those pictures.

[Asker]

So it's probably all in my head?

[anonymousxyz]

Yeah, I mean what's more meaningful telling someone they're beautiful and kissing them (I'm guessing your bf does this) or just randomly liking their photo. I mean he's probably liking what they post and not secretly liking them.

[Asker]

Even if they're all 'selfies'

[anonymousxyz]

Sort of different let me adjust my answer. I mean, I can like how a girl looks. I can think that she's really hot, which is possibly what your boyfriend is thinking but do I love them? Hell no. I mean you've probably thought in the last three years that a guy other than your be was really attractive but just that.

[Asker]

God you're mature for under 18

[anonymousxyz]

Thanks, I try :) haha

[Asker]

Are you 17 then?

[anonymousxyz]

Just turned 16

[Asker]

what?

[anonymousxyz]

Yeah haha, what about you?

[Asker]

Seventeen

[anonymousxyz]

Wow, you're young too. Good luck with your bf! It sounds like he loves you, consider yourself lucky

[Asker]

I do

[UnknownXYZ]

To me, you sound jealous and insecure more than paranoid. Liking photos on Facebook and Instagram doesn't have to be anything more liking the photos.

[UnknownXYZ]

more than liking*

[Asker]

I'm very insecure

[UnknownXYZ]

Stop fretting over him liking pictures. Or is there a deeper problem you aren't sharing about?

[Asker]

Like what?

[UnknownXYZ]

I don't know, that's why I am asking.

[Asker]

For my age I have been through a LOT of things girls shouldn't even go through once in their lives, it's destroyed me and my confidence

[UnknownXYZ]

What are those things?

[UnknownXYZ]

If you like, you can message me if you need further help. :)

[claire211]

I think likes mean a lot. My ex liked a lot of girlfriend on Instagram, I monitored him with Snoopreport service (https://snoopreport. com/en - found on google). I asked him not to do this anymore but he refused.. So we broke up :( I think if your boyfriend doesn't want to stop the things you don't like, you should think about your relationships

[lordAlex818]

You are just being paranoid. A guy liking another girl's picture does not mean he is cheating on you.

[Asker]

Even if it's this 1 girl in particular

[lordAlex818]

Even if it's this one girl in particular.

[Asker]

Okay. You seem so grown up for under 18

[Anonymous]

He just isn't that into you. Especially at your age, that's what boys do. End it

[Asker]

Well he's been into me since we started high school and we plan on going to college and live together so..

[Opinion Owner]

Nothing goes to plan. I know you think you know the world but I'm telling you there is 95% chance it will not even last.

[Asker]

I know

[princesswitch]

The poll results are hilarious.

[Asker]

I know! It shows a lot that other girls feel like this but boys agree its nothing

[Blazer64]

Really all this over Facebook.

[Asker]

I know, so tempted to just delete my account

[Blazer64]

This is just sad. -__-

[Asker]

thanks:)

[Blazer64]

See I'm honestly not sure if you're just a troll or are serious. But whatever the case people who use social media to question their relationship like this are idiots.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Anonymous]

Probably trying to make you jealous

[Asker]

it works