What do guys think of skinny girls with small breasts/no ass?

I know it sounds stupid, but I worry about my body shape a lot, even though I probably have no reason to. I'm 23 years old, 5'9", 115 pounds, American white girl with light brown hair and dark brown eyes. I'm a fashion model, so I work out six days a week and eat super healthy. I have very long legs and six-pack abs, which I'm proud of but I hate my B-cup breasts and flat ass. I've always been naturally thin, so if I eat a lot of junk food, it just goes right to my stomach and not the places I want it to go. I always hear guys talk about how sexy Kate Upton is and how they want "something to grab onto," which makes me feel crappy because I know I'll never have that without plastic surgery. I've heard most guys don't like fake breasts either though, so I'm in a lose-lose situation. I get a decent amount of attention from guys and it confuses me because I have nothing for them to "grab onto," like they want. I've also been told by a few guys that I'd be hotter with "more meat on my bones" and I used to get bullied for being too skinny when I was in K-12 school. Even if a guy does show interest, I imagine if I made an exact clone of myself but with DD breasts and a rap video booty, he'd 100% choose the clone. Ugh. Does every guy prefer the Kate Upton body type, or is my very fit but flat all-over body actually desirable to some guys?
No ass/titties = no interest
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Doesn't matter
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Skinny is sexier
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  • Well I do not know who Kate Upton is. However I would never just flat out say "no ass/tits-no interest".
    However, I am not interested in a woman with "6 pack abs" since I have no interest in dating a man.
    but everyone is attracted to different things. You probably get more the body builder or "pretty people" anyway. Your not going to be intersted in a guy like me that has a few pounds on him.
    I prefer a woman with some "meat on her bones". but I have been with skinny women and my ex was over 350lbs at one point. so it is the woman I am intersted in more then anything.
    Women are supposed to be soft. that is what is so friggin hot about them. to hold them in your arms and just have them be so soft and cuddly...
    I would prefer no tit's to fake tit's btw..

  • Hey, don't thinking your body in a bad way or worry too much, tell the ture skinny girl is hot and sexy, I love skinny girl, and as a fashion model you shuold be slender, becasue it will make you more attractive, Just depends on the person, some people love skinny girls some don't, that's all! B-cup breasts and flat ass it's ok , you check me check my photo, I am a skinny guy too, But I don't feel shame. have you seen the big brother Reality show? check the The 13 season, in that season a girl called Cathy, she is a fashion model too and she have a skinny body shape, but she looks amazing. we all in a different shape. just be yourself and find your confidence. by the way can we be freinds if you want to?

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  • Okay, Imagine your body gets a do-over. You get any other girl's body which might seem better to you at that point (say, for example, mine). Would you be happier then?
    Trust me, those DD cups and that rap ass booty won't do you too much good. Yes, maybe your boyfriend might have something to grab on, but you would lose your originality. And considering what you said, I think your legs are just to die for. So just be happy with your sexy self :)

  • As women, we sometimes tend to hear positive comments about body types that we don't have.
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    At the end of the day, guys don't care as much as we think they do and beauty is subjective. Most like a variety of women and looks aren't everything anyway. Be happy with what you have and don't compare yourself to Kate Upton ffs.

  • I had that problem and It's high metabolism what you have the fact that your thin try eating 3500 calories a day healthy no junk food! Challenge yourself with 30 day squat challenge it shows amazing results TRUST ME IN THIS!!! Add butt excersizes with the squat challenge and you see big results in like 16 days!!!

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  • Different strokes for different guys. I actually prefer skinny small (er) breasted women with no ass. I've got a buddy who is very good looking and he prefers the same. His chick is 5'7", 115lbs, no tits or ass and he couldn't be happier.

    Having said that, the majority of my crew is all about T&A. Most of them are bigger dudes though.

    Don't worry about it.
    You shouldn't have any problems attracting a mate.

  • Girl you're a freakin model? Nuff said lol cause I stopped reading after that. Obviously somebody likes your bod, they made you a freakin model :)

  • You sound like you're perfectly fine. The first thing you have to keep in mind is that your body must look the way you like, not the way you think others would like, because that confidence in yourself makes you much hotter. Once said that, if you'd like to look a little bit curvier, you could focus on squating exercises during your workout to build that perfect butt you want. And for the chest, I think you can't change that by exercising, but you can make it look better by the way you dress.

  • You've got the perfect figure for some guys. But different people have different tastes.

    Are you looking to get a boyfriend? Because if you are, he's going to be attracted to your looks, but factors like your personality and values weigh far more heavily than a wish list of physical features like specific boob size.

    I'll bet you are absolutely gorgeous. So celebrate you! Don't contemplate going plastic. Any guy who doesn't like you the way you are doesn't deserve you.

  • Your face is the most important thing. You can have the best body in the world but if you have an ugly face, it's a dealbreaker. I have the same body type as you (6'1" 150 lbs) with long legs and a natural six pack. Fortunately for me, I don't have to work out to keep a gut away. I too get told to"put some meat on my bones"

    Personally I prefer a small perky boobs and big nipples. Not sure why, they are just me visually appealing. Most guys from my experience prefer larger ones (I think they are nice too) but at the end of the day they are not the most important thing. Think of it like dating a skinny guy vs a buff guy. Its a plus but it's not a must. Its also just "something to talk about with the guys" you see some big, noticeable boobs and you make a comment on them to your buddies just for the sake of being "one of the guys." I'm guilty of it myself.

  • Even if no ass or tits. I'll still be into you.
    Yes... any guy can have more fun with any female that has more ass and tits.
    But if you are pretty or cute. You be fine.
    But even so... if you can give a good bj (no disrespect) the guy can always go to you for more fun.
    So... you'll be fine.
    Just give the best smile you can give. And I'm sure many would be interested.

  • Don't hate your B boobies, because I love them.
    I like a trim girl with modest goodies.
    Your bod rocks, and I look for slim girls like you.
    Yeah, kids are tough in school, but once people get out more, they usually lighten up.
    Myself and many others desire your body style.
    Not all guys need big fat titties and ass to hold onto.
    I would be willing to say that you have plenty of things to grab.
    Ignore the TV hype.
    Listen to the guys that pay attention to you.

  • Sounds hot to me. You have to understand that most guys have a range of what they'd consider "hot". It's not just one thing. I bet you're easily an 7/10 - and that's assuming you're a butterface. Probably even hotter if your face is nice.

  • I think having small boobs and ass when u r really skinny is so sexy. Actually i think really skinny girls in general r so sexy. I bet u look so pretty at 5'9 and 115, though I think u would loo even prettier if u even got down to 100

    • God, no. I would like I'm starving if I got down to 100. That's not a healthy weight for a girl my height.

  • If I like her I like her, it's not always about being skinny, fat, boobs, ass. skinny is good though

  • FYI, your looks will never last, so even if a guy got with you because of them, dont you think he'd leave you for a younger woman when you started to age?

    So forget the looks, a guy should get with you because of who you are. I dont care how hot a girl is, if she has no personality forget it, unless it was for sex... in which case if guys are getting with you cos of your looks it will be for sex. nice huh.

  • you sound very hot and sexy to me!

  • I think a skinny girl with small beasts and bootie is cute

  • You sound like you have a BANGING body! My preference has always been for athletic girls so that means a nice tight/firm body and a small/v small chest.

    My idea of having something to grab onto is my hands wrapping round a skinny little waist and feeling hips in my hands not fat... sorry... curves!

    • Thanks! That sounds exactly like my body, haha. I have barely any body fat but a lot of muscle tone from yoga and lifting. I hope there are more guys like you out there :) Also, I haven't been on this website in a while so sorry for the super-late reply!

    • There are loads like me don't you worry! What's not to like about a body like yours.

      https://ep3.xhcdn.com/000/059/573/827_1000.jpg

      Really interesting seeing the poll results too with guys dominating the 'skinnier is sexier' response so you're definitely onto a winner!

      P's. Loving the sound of your body even more now!

  • Do you have anything to bring to the table besides your body?

    • LOL dude

    • Some chick down-voted me for that too. So much for the myth that girls want non-perverted guys.

  • I am also on the skinnier/flatter side...

    And trust me, there are guys that really dig this look. there's lovers for every body-type.

  • I've been attracted to really thin and petite girls before.. A lot of guys like a variety of different body types.

  • My brother's engaged to a girl with a flat ass and flat chest. So that's evidence right there that it doesn't always matter.

  • Listen, if someone doesn't like the way you are, they shouldn't matter to you. Guys have many different attraction types and you need to realize you want a guy to be with who you are on the inside, not just want to be with you on account of looks. If it does bother you a lot, you can always workout and gain muscle in those certain areas you lack, like squats, deadlifts. Things of that sort. But do it for yourself, if you are happy with yourself, then just don't worry about it! :)

  • I think every guy has preferences, but ultimately they don't matter as much as long as the girl is confident in her body and loves what she has. I prefer bigger girls, but I'm also not turned off by skinniness/flatness. It doesn't matter that much, ultimately, you know? That's how I see it anyway.

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