My boyfriend doesn't want me getting breast implants? Help please? Guys would you support her decision?

[Anonymous]

At first, although he wasn't 100% on board, he was at least a little supportive, but now he's completely against it. He said he'll stay, but keeps trying to convince me not to get them. Before he'd say that as long as it made me happy, he'd be happy. Now he says that it'd make him really sad, and prefer I didnt, if I altered my breasts, and keeps telling me not to. Why would he change his mind? How can I convince him again? Help? Guys would you be supportive of her decision?

[JustJohnChi]

There is this misconception that when it comes to guys and tits, bigger is better. Actually, that is not true. Some guys like really big ones. But lots of guys like smaller ones, especially on smaller women. Petite women with big tits do not necessarily look good. And as you have observed, many men prefer real ones. They feel better, they bounce better, they do not look fake. And many of us, like me, feel that anything past a mouthful is wasted anyway.

I like things natural, and if you were my girlfriend and I was used to seeing you naked and liked what I saw, I would not want to see you mess with it.

[Octagon]

I wouldn't want my girlfriend to get any form of cosmetic surgery but I cannot stop her as she is her own person and it's her body.

My major concern is that she gets addicted to cosmetic surgery and before you know it she's spent thousands of pounds on looking like a Barbie doll.

[Anonymous]

He obviously likes your breast the way they are, he necer thought you'd actually go through with it. He says he won't leave you, which is sweet, but for me that would change an enjoyable part of sex. Honestly, no I wouldn't support her. I really dislike the way breast implants look. Swollen and fake looking. Plus, she's layed up in pain and you have to take care of her for something she totally opted for. This is just my opinion, it doesn't mean it's true.

[why_not_anonymous]

Besides the problems that @stevie123 mentioned, there's also the risk of death.

Also, it suggests that you're not happy with yourself - and that's not curable by some silicone. You (most likely) won't be happy then either, and find something else that you need to "just upgrade a little".

Plus, usually upgrading boobs means you're ready to upgrade your BF/husband once you start getting free drinks and more male attention. Check out the stats on how many wives stay married within 5 years of a 2 size jump.

I know of *one* girl, who only jumped up from a B to a C - so she filled out the bra size she was wearing (pads to no pads) - who kept her shit together.

[stevie123]

I do not approve of implants.
They mostly look fake, and out of proportion.
Not to mention the scarring, loss of sensitivity, and lumps/stretch marks. and $$
Why chop up luscious boob flesh?
curious, what size are they now, and what size do you want?

[Junlian]

When guys say " you can do x as long as it make you happy." That means you better be happy with what he'll you got. You might be happy with the decision but your bf isn't. Why? Cause that's were " we love you naturally the way you are." We as guys don't want our girlfriends to change nothing, alter nothing, and stay natural. If change that such as Breast implants then that's what you want but not what he wants. Depending on the guy he may not be happy with you. But he may be pressured to accept. I say don't do it.

[thisGUYknows]

I wouldn't want a girl I'm with to get them. They don't feel and bounce the same. Plus I see that as her caring a little to much about her looks. And he's not gonna like the extra looks you'll be getting from guys. Girls say they get them for themselves, to boost their confidence. But to me it's confidence by getting guys too look at them so they feel sexier. I'm against it. A body part shouldn't give u confidence. It's your actions.

[THE_Godfather]

I don't know you & I wish you wouldn't.
It's your body so you can do anything you want with it. I would be supportive BUT I would ask her not to. I'd tell her the finial decision is hers.

[Theguyoverthere]

I wouldn't date a girl if her breasts were really that much of a problem to me. In the end, you do have the final say, but overall, I can see why he is against them. I'm kinda indifferent myself.

[ThePragmaticRomantic]

Sorry but I'm on his side. If you really want to do it. Do it. But dont expect men, especially those already close to you to be happy about it. Sorry.

[Mesonfielde]

Breast implants really suck. I would say he should give an ultimatum so you don't make a terrible mistake.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Fake titties don't feel as nice as real ones and can look stupid.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't be able to be supportive either.
Fake tits look cheap and trashy. It make the female look shallow and cheap.
I don't get why any female would get fake tits (unless it was after a mastectomy or something)

[Jack_the_stripper]

why do you need to do it anw? your boyfriend is ok with you now.
And I think plastic surgery sucks.