Is it okay to add your crush on FB?

Question

This has been my dilemma in my entire life. I don't want to be the one making the first move because that's what most girls do. 

I don't know if this guy still remembers me. I met him in a dance competition. I want him to notice me but I just can't add him on FB. The thought of him thinking of me as someone desperate is holding me back. 

Is it really okay to add him?

Lissie257 · Accepted Answer

Its just a chance of trial and error sweetheart. If you really want it you gotta go for it! I've added many crushes of mine on Facebook and they didn't turn out good... but you know what? I didn't let that stop me. I kept doing it because I wanted to, I didn't let fear stop me. Last year I addes my crush on facebook, now he is my boyfriend! !! True story!!! :)

You just gotta take a chance hun, you never know how it will work out unless you try! And if it doesn't work out the first time or so, don't let it stop you, keep going! They are all just stepping stones leading you to the right guy! Good luck!! :D <3

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'll just say that my boyfriend has told me he wouldn't have had the courage to ask me out if I hadn't sent him a friend request first.

Most people won't see a single request as desperate. Desperate is when someone sends you a request and then begs you in person/via texting to add them and sending multiple requests after you deny it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You should add him. I added my crush after 2 months of fighting myself, once he accepted he ended writing me :)

sovetskii13 · Accepted Answer

Of course it's okay. You ever talked before? If yes, add them. It's not necessarily a sign that you have a crush on him. Girls can add guy friends on Facebook and vise verso just because they have some friendship.

Mimir · Accepted Answer

People add others on Facebook they met once 30 years ago. I can assure you, most people think nothing of it when someone adds them on Facebook. Add him and see what happens. You have literally nothing to lose.

grecoturkodalisque · Answer

i want you to help with a big problem. I am 19 years old and i work on a cruise ship. I met a big boy (lol) who's much older than me and i fell in love with him. He truly was a gentleman and he showed his interest in me without being ridiculous. despite the fact that he's 36 years old, he showed me respect as a woman. Anyway we had to leave the ship because of corona and I lost him. The last 2 days I found out that he is married and I was very offish with him. The last day on board an elder coworker told me that the man I want, threatened him and told him in private that i am his and he don't want anyone to touch me. I still want him and I learned that he separated from his wife (he's muslim) and they're together only because they have small kids. Should I send him a friend request or no? :(

Daydreamer1983 · Answer

I think it's ok to do so. A girl who I really don't know added me yesterday. It's no big deal and you've nothing to lose but everything to gain by adding him.

DarkHumorRUs · Answer

I add anyone who's face I recognize. I added my crush on Facebook when we had no mutual friends (she had just moved to my state) and I had to search for her. But she just said "I accepted your friend request!"

Anonymous · Answer

Yes do, I added my crush before and it was no problem. It's just Facebook, no biggie unless Facebook is a biggie to you.

cagefighter1568 · Answer

Duh. No different then adding a friend you just met.

Hyped_up_on_coffee · Answer

Yeah if you have talked to him then yeah

JTD2198 · Answer

can i ask u a question

Is it okay to add your crush on FB?

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