What height do you find ideal? (Both realistic and unrealistic) and is height an important factor?

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I'm a short, 5'1 girl. My dream height for a guy is 6-6'3.
My realistic, ideal height would be 5'7 and above. Not too tall though because I'm a midget.
Height wouldn't be a factor for me when I choose guys, but they probably have to be taller than me (not too hard to be a guy and be 5'1<) and tallness would be a plus. But never a minus.

How tall are you, what's your dream height (both real and unreal), and is height important to you? Both girls and guys!

Cdeboo111 · Accepted Answer

I am 4'11" and my dream height would be 5'9" but realistically it would be around 5'4" or taller. Height isn't a huge factor I look at when it comes to guys but they have to be taller which is really easy to find. I love to be picked up and feel protected so I love tall guys, but as long as the guy is nice and somewhat good looking I don't think height would matter.

Victoria14 · Accepted Answer

im 5'4 and have always liked guys that were like 6'0 and above.. but not like anything past 6'7 haha thatd be a little too tall. but i just at least want the guy im with to be taller than me. i think its one of those subconscious protective, dominant appealing traits that i like for guys to have.. i dont know haha

EyeSeaYew · Accepted Answer

I am 5'5. I considered height to be more of a bonus than anything else, similar to what you said. I really like 6'3 to 6'5. That's a nice bonus to me. But I really don't care about height much. I've liked guys shorter than me. I don't really care too much about that.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm 5'2.
Dream height: 6'0-6'3
Realistic height: 5'8-6'3

I dated a guy that was 6'5 before... it was awkward as hell. I don't think i'll ever date someone that tall again! When he hugged me I would stand on my toes and he STILL have to bend down XD

decemberxblue · Accepted Answer

My "ideal" is 5'8+, but height isn't much of a determining factor for me, if she's cute she's cute.  But when a girl is tall and attractive, she's *really* attractive...

Hikikomori · Accepted Answer

I'm 6'5. My dream height for a girl is 5'3-6'11. I don't like bending that much, but I wouldn't mind because why the fuck would I not endure something so petty for someone special.

musicbrain5 · Answer

I'm 6'1" and a guy around my height is ideal. My SO is 6'4" and that's just fine.

There are honestly not many guys who would want to go out with a girl my height, at least according to my tall friends and pretty much all the guys on this website, haha.

Red_Dragon · Answer

I'm around 5'3 annnnnnnd... I don't care.

DodgersGM · Answer

The only thing that I really care about in terms of height is that she's shorter than I am (so 5'11" or shorter).

If I was pressed into saying an ideal height, I'd probably say between 5'4'' and 5'6''. I prefer a decent amount of height difference but not so much that it makes kissing awkward. Plus, during sex I'd like to have my face near her face, and not have her buried somewhere in my chest. LOL

Anonymous · Answer

Being totally shallow and not wanting to offend any guy: my ideal would be about 6'2" and I'm 5'2". I just think it's extremely sexy. But it's not that important. I'm extremely attracted to a guy who is about 4 inches or so shorter than that.

I would date any guy taller than me if I liked him and was attracted to him aside from height. But my realistic ideal would be 5'9" or 5'10".

milightman · Answer

I'm 6'2 so I like girls to be 5'5 to even my height in heels. It just feels a lot more intimate when they're in my face standing up. But honestly height isn't too much a factor for me, but that would be nice too.

G-Daz · Answer

I'm 6ft and my ideal height would be 4"11 to 5" 5

Somewhere in that range but it's not very important, just so long as she's shorter. I like thick thighs though I think a lot of short girls tend to have that and look meaty

JHAYES317 · Answer

I’m probably around 5’6 1/2” but I will often round to 5’7”. My ideal height would be anywhere between 5’8” and 6’3”. For women as far as dating goes, I don’t care about how tall or short they are as long as they aren’t stronger or heavier than me. Like they could be 6’2” for all I care as long as they weigh less than me. I suppose if I had to pick an ideal height for a girlfriend maybe 5’1”, but again, weight is much more of a factor than height when I’m thinking about relationships.

Leoking · Answer

I'm 6'5'' and love short girls, however it really is awkward when she has to stand on tiptoe and you have to bend down to kiss her. That won't stop me, but god if it is difficult.

I still like being this tall, though.

1932ct · Answer

I'm 6'2" tall an my ideal height for woman is 4'7" to 5'  height isn't really a deal breaker most the time if she's under bout 5'7" but if she's shorter it is a bigger turn on

Ensiferum · Answer

Im 5-11 and I dont care at all about height. In fact, I would like to go to korea and marry a girl there so finding an tall Asian would be mission impossible

Stuff_and_stuff · Answer

I'm 5'7 and the ideal height for me is maybe about 5'9 to 6'2. I don't want a guy too tall because it'll feel awkward. And no guy shorter than me because I'll feel awkward with that too...

InquisitiveMale · Answer

I'm 6'1 and my ideal height is 5'7-5'9.  I like legs, so height has some barring when it comes to basic sexual attraction- it's important to a degree.

sovetskii13 · Answer

I don't care about height that much but if I had to choose then I would want to be around 6'0 and for my girl to be around 5'8. Something in that area but it's not a must.

meatballs21 · Answer

I am 6'2, my dream height for a girl is 5'0, my realistic height is 5'5 and below. Is height important to me? Yes, I find petite girls to be a lot cuter.

xCutesyLolitax · Answer

I'm 5'6! o: But sometimes, I wish I was 4'11!!! :c However, I try to always grateful for the height God gave me :) although... i think short girls are really cute and pretty! ;~; ^_^

witchprincess · Answer

I'm 5'4". I wish I were 2 inches shorter or 3 inches taller, but it's whatever. Height is very important to me when it comes to choosing a partner. Ideal male height (to me) is 6'4".

RandomStudent · Answer

I'm 5'6 my ideal height in a girl is 4'10-5'5. Most girls prefer taller attractive guys though, so my realistic expectation is 0' because no girls are into me.

slowbiwankanobi · Answer

Well I'm 6ft tall and I Very much prefer guys 6'4 -6'9

I have dated everyone under the sun though ranging from 5'7 - 6'5 and though if i like the guy height doesn't matter. I prefer someone much taller than me because guys tend to feel emasculated by being the same height or shorter

TheEquestrian · Answer

Height doesn't really matter, though I would be lying if I said I didn't like guys who were taller than me.

RedThread · Answer

I don't care about height at all. Tall is easier though since I'm quite tall.

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