Keeping a secret like this for 20 years has been quite exhausting and it would be nice to be able to tell someone about it and perhaps have someone to talk about it with.
Now, I've got a female friend I talk about stuff with. We both talk about what girls we like, other fairly personal and private things and I think she is quite an open minded person. We've joked about crossdressing before but she doesn't know that this is something I actually really want to do.
Should I tell her?
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