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How do I spank my girlfriend?

My girlfriend asked me to discipline her with spankings, we set some rules and if she violates any of them I will have to spank her. However when the time comes that she actually needs a spanking I'm not sure how to go about it. What position do I use? Do I use a paddle or my hand or both? Do I do it bare or over clothing? How many swats do I give her or how long should the spanking last? How red and sore should her bum be when I'm done? I asked her what she wanted and she said it is all up too me, so what should I do?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Completely naked, including socks, this makes her more submissive to you. Over your lap and start out lightly, gradually getting harder. Do it all over, concentrating on the bottom half of the cheeks and upper thighs. Be sure to lecture her about her bad behavior while spanking. Remember, you're teaching her to be good and obey your rules! When she starts complaining about it REALLY hurting, then go for awhile longer. Bright red and light bruises are fine as it fades quickly. Once she gets used to the discipline, you can go much longer and ignore her tears, driving your point across so she learns her lesson! Comfort her afterwards, but don't let her rub her butt, she needs to feel the pain. In the future, spank enough so it hurts to sit the next day. An added punishment is to not allow clothing for the rest of the day. This will add to the humiliation and make her think about what she did wrong. Afterwards, I always get on my knees and give by boyfriend a superb blowjob as an apology for not obeying. Now get to making those rules! You got a very special gift from her, and you will love being in control! From a well spanked, well behaved 50 yr old female :)

  • Bend her over, palm wide, spread your fingers and m choose one cheek.

Most Helpful Guys

  • One at a time, with your hand, over clothes until you find her threshold - afterword the same process bare until you find that threshold. Then you will know how much torque you can put in your swing to not harm her but fulfill her request. You would be surprised at the pain tolerance of some folks. If you get to a point where nothing short of a closed fist punch to the butt is working she would probably suggest you upgrade to something else.

    I have been with gals who liked to get smacked a bit playfully but none of them wanted anything outside of a rough/playful hand.

    Good luck

  • Dont ask her. It destroys the dominance thing. Start out light and every time it happens try a few more or a bit harder. Then pay attention to how she reacts. Hand is fine. I sugest you sit in a chair and have her bent over you on your lap. Dont taker clothes off. Just pull her pants and underwear down enough to exspose her ass. Leaving clothes on. oddly enough it makes for a more exsposed feeling which goes well with the dom/sub theam here.

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  • um... i think youe GF is sadistic. you may wanna stay away from her

    • Lol sadistic? Learn vocabulary before you try to use it. She is probably a masochist. They enjoy pain. But this is also a dominance act. Which dominance tends to turn on most women. Its really a matter of if they are comfor

  • It's all in the wrist.

    https://i.imgur.com/VzCIsUJ.jpg

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