What frustrates you the most about the opposite sex?

[Anonymous]

What frustrates you the most about the opposite sex?

[emmabee11]

Men...

- Try to act too "manly" to the point they are friguid and completely unexpressive (even during sex)
- They try to push me into having sex
- They rush things far too much and think getting to know me is just THAT easy to do and that they think they can know everything about me even within a week... lol.
- They go mental on them just for rejecting them because of their insecurities and blame the bad experiences they have had with others girls on me (just maybe though i've had just as many bad experiences with guys too and that i would understand you if only you calmed down and shut up for 1 second lol).
- They assume every girl likes a guy that dresses nice and likes JLS so they dress like them (but really they aren't being themselves), so you assume i'm like other girls, that every girl is the same and that i would like you for being someone your not haaa...
- They have too many double-standards over females (and yes girls do over guys too but i'm not a girl to have any double-standards over guys), so it annoys me a tone.
- Believe in such a thing as a "friend-zone" when there is nothing wrong with being friends with each other but they treat it like it's a sin.
- When they shame other girls for expressing their sexualaity
- They act like total and complete idiots with their friends and let them influence them too much
- When they are so afraid of being honest and open with me incase some guy calls him "gay"
- They try to tell me what to wear
- Not being open-minded to explore a deeper level of themselves
- Walks away when on our period and treats us like psychos when infact we aren't always moody on our period, we can also be a lot more affectionate
- When they think a girl can't even lift something, do a so called "mans" job or even learn how to paint a wall... they treat us like we are just tooth picks.

There is more... oh yes... but these are the things that annoy me the most

[bubbletrouble]

A lot of them date bad girls but complain about girls liking bad guys? O. o
What's up with that hypocrisy?
Some dude actually got called out on his bullshit on here. He chose bad girls in a poll that stated bad girl vs good girl.
Then turned around and asked a question asking why girls like assholes.

[Asker]

Seriously? That's brilliant. XD

The only thing worse than an idiot is an inconsistent and hypocritical idiot.

[bubbletrouble]

lol haha. But it basically helped further confirm this type of stuff I see with a lot of guys (not all though). Sometimes I don't get what people like in 'bad' people tbh.

[Asker]

I used to buy into the whole girls are attrated to jerks thing but I've grown out of that after actually talking to girls. Lol
Besides I never said I preferred bad girls. I don't get the appeal of that kind of thing unless it's a hot Russian in a Bond film. XD

[bubbletrouble]

lol haha. But one other thing I don't get is why so many guys hate babies/kids. Do you?

[Asker]

I don't really. I mean I don't want to be a Dad anytime soon. I actually want to have kids eventually. For some reason whenever I think of my future/ideal life, I imagine me being married with 2 or 3 kids and at least 2 of them girls.
I don't know why I seem to prefer daughters, maybe cos I have 2 younger brothers that drive me crazy. XD

[bubbletrouble]

That's cute. haha.

[Asker]

I thought you'd say that. When I said that in an answer to another question, I got like 4 upvotes from girls and at least one said that it was cute and actually thanked me.

Is it really that odd?

[bubbletrouble]

lol not odd, just sweet since so many guys give us the impression they hate kids.

[Asker]

Not me. I love the idea of getting a Dad of the Year cup or something like that one year. Not anytime soon though lol

The girl I talked to seemed surprised that I wanted girls which did surprise me.

[bubbletrouble]

I don't know. I think a lot of girls just figure if he did want kids, he would want a boy, you know?

[Asker]

Yeah I don't know why I prefer girls. Maybe it's cos I grew up as the oldest of 3 boys.
Plus I like the idea of having a whole family of girls to look after and love. I'm a hopelessly romantic sap that way. XD

[bubbletrouble]

hehe that's sweet XD

[Asker]

I get told I'm sweet a lot. It still suprises me. Lol

[Crazyced]

I disagree with this. If I was a betting man, I'd say most guys complaining about girls only going for bad guys don't date at all.

[zombiebabe]

*that they don't listen
*that they care much more about their friends that their so (and when they act like asshole in their presence)
*when they forget about your birthday
*when they put a lot of restrictions on you
*when they hit you
*when they cheat on you
*when they are not sincere

[Wintersmorning]

You seem to have had a bad experience with men.

[zombiebabe]

@Wintersmorning ; yes i did babe

[Wintersmorning]

I'm sorry I hope they get better for you.

[been_waiting]

Guys are probably frustrated with "friend zoning" or simply not getting the girl they want, as if its a crime for a girl to not like them.

I'm frustrated with the "nice guy" shit

[Asker]

I've noticed. :)

[front2back]

My only complainant with women is how many of them follow an "exception" rule or are hypocritical. My sister did it, girls in high school/college do it, and my coworkers do it. I think it's subconscious, too.

With the "exception" rule, either the girl makes special exceptions for things she's normally against/for at her will and/or tells everyone the rules and right ways to do things, except these rules and ways don't apply to her.

Examples:
"Why does she keep sleeping with random guys? She needs to stop being so easy." <-- Has slept with over 30 guys in the past year.
"My guy has to have a job, otherwise it's a deal breaker." <-- Gets jobless boyfriend 2 months later but accepts it since "he's hot and has awesome tattoos".
"Judging people on their sexual past is immature. Your number doesn't define you." *later* "Wow these virgin guys are so f**king clueless. What losers."
**Goes out with girlfriends for 5 weekends in a row, then gets mad when her boyfriend goes to his old roommate's birthday party one weekend when she wanted to spend time with him.**

I'll stop here, but I could write pages of these.

[BertMacklinFBI]

when they don't wanna try new fun exciting dangerous *ahem* things with me. lol

[Asker]

That's odd.
I've seen 2 or 3 questions from girls crushing on you so I'd have thought you'd get them to do whatever you wanted. :P

[BertMacklinFBI]

well unfortunate for me they all live far away bahahaa xD

[miserybusiness]

You can go on those rollercoasters by yourself, bro

[BertMacklinFBI]

@miserybusiness no d00d! ride on the back of my bike :D

[miserybusiness]

Nonononono do you know how dangerous riding a bicycle is? You can slip off the back and crack your skull open. Sorry man, I don't do extreme sports!

[BertMacklinFBI]

@misyerbusiness butbutubububut... fun... =(

[BertMacklinFBI]

@miserybusiness

[kangy]

Disrespectful
Unfaithfulness
Insensitive
Overlook on details like birthday I am not expecting celebration or present but if u like someone u wld make an effort to remember her birthday.
Once they get the girl, they dont cherish her much and take her for granted

[Wintersmorning]

Misogyny and when they feel like women should just be cooking and cleaning and making children. Like, gtfo. I could never date someone who didn't accept the fact that I'm a feminist. I want equality, not superiority.

[Asker]

I agree. I don't want to go off topic here but I was really surprised by the hate for feminists on this site.

I remember I asked a question and I mentioned that I was a feminist and a guy said that all feminists should be put to death. He didn't even go anon! :/

[Wintersmorning]

I think that's a disgrace. But I also think it's because we get stereotyped into a group of white lesbian women who hate men, when in reality it can be a man or woman of any race or sexual orientation who wants gender equality. I always attack when someone goes against feminism until they realise they're wrong.

[Asker]

His exact words were he wants the movement banned and it's members executed. When I said that he seemed more fascist than the feminists that he claimed were fascist, he said it was "for the greater good". I then realised I was dealing with a lunatic and gave up.

I was a bit put off by the whole feminist thing but I looked it up a bit more and decided that I was a feminist. I'd have no problem dating a girl who said she was either.

[Wintersmorning]

I just feel like people don't understand it enough. If it was publisiced more, people would take note.

[sammy_31]

Not being able to understand that we can't express ourselves the way we want to sometimes. We can't help but be complicated but it's predictable with guys it really is much more frustrating. Sometimes not being able to say anything is like ahhhhhh hair pulling!

[Kythe]

It's not really specific to men. But the most frustrating thing for me is the inability for many people to put themselves in other people's shoes, and that is especially true when it comes to the opposite gender.

I suppose that's pretty understandable -- most of us have never been the opposite gender :) But a lot of people don't even seem to try.

[Kythe]

*not really specific to women ;)

[DamanMannn]

The ones I think beautiful & physically attractive,
do not enjoy my company or have Anxiety to enjoy my company.

I apologize in advance for the insensitivity.
The ones I find physically UN-attractive, loves me.

This, I hate about opposite sex. </3 lol.

[Crazyced]

I don't really have problems with women in general.

But if I had to pick something. I'd have to say the blatant lack of accountability they can sometime display.

As if they were trying to simultaneously reap the benefits of being an independent adult and a vulnerable child.

[Prof_Don]

That's a good answer

[Airlines22]

When you think you know more about a topic and don't even listen to the other person's view
The biggest one is when you pretend not to act tough just so a girl can win

But my gender frustrates me WAY MORE!

[dreamingincake]

They're so calm, blasé, and nonchalant about everything. It makes it very hard to know how they feel and what they're thinking.

[Blue2]

well it can be both ways but i feel like women have more of an easier sway with it. But stringing along. hey some girls are to shy to say it but come on say you dont like the guy already. dont fuck around with his emotions. (ive seen it happen to my friends and had it happen to me once)

[Arthurred]

There in ability to see a males perspective because I always try to keep an open mind when it comes to other people's views, for example many females don't seem to understand that marriage generally favors them and get mad at men when they say that don't want to get married.

[bobjonesies]

Their complexity, how they have to repeat everything a million times when I hear them the first time, how they try to bother me when its clear that I'm in the middle of an important task, how quite a few of them think they are always smarter than me and I'm retarded, stuff like that... Those people make me mad. Not all women are like this, but A LOT are.
Ladies, if you wouldn't want to date yourself if you were a guy, please change.

[blackeagle007]

Just how obsessive women are in a guys physical appearance. Sad they are so visual. We guys are more forgiving on looks. We date unattractive and average girls all the time.

And ladies don't say "put that in reverse" cause u know females are more visual.

[AboveTheClouds]

We can never understand the same feelings.
They can never get us.
We can never get them.
One thing they say, they mean the other.
One thing we hear, we think the other.

Girls Help Us Out.
Guys Help Them Out.

[Ghostfanatic]

They act interested one minute, then they ignore you and pretend like you don't exist the next.

[sfsdfdsfds]

We took a page from your book so you can taste your own medicine

[dE_logics]

That's cause you got it wrong.

[Overactivetits]

yupp yupp yupp thats from the girl playbook guys are just smart enough to catch on... driving women crazy is the fastest way into their pants

[Proboy421]

Nagging, not admitting they are wrong and reserving to insulting and arguing from emotion, trying to change me, playing mind games, I can go on and on. I have a 0 tolerance policy for such nonsense and I say NO to it.

[Canterbury_Bellz]

Oblivious to things going on with their friends, or people around them. Just a note, this is whatI find frustrating about the guys in my school, and the guys i know in general. Not all guys.

[Alcoto12]

What frustrates me the most is when men deny having feelings and emotions to appear masculine.

[Carter43]

women frustrate when they feel hat they don't need to give the truth about why they dumped you. may not deserve resolution but it does help.

[MidnightSkyline]

Where do I start?
When they go quiet all of a sudden and doesn't say anything
When they ignore your messages for hours on end with no explanation other than "Alone time"
When they think they can say stuff that offends females and then get away with it.

[Levin]

They don't seem to like me very much. :D

That's bloody annoying man!