Ronald Reagan called his wife "mommy". Do you want to be like Ronald Reagan?
Girls, would you like it if your guy called you "mommy"?
Ronald Reagan called his wife "mommy". Do you want to be like Ronald Reagan?
Calling a man daddy can have some psychological reasons, dad is the symbol of safety and security, love and also a kind of dominance that causes a sweet willing obedience. anybody who had a very great father who played well in the role of Father beside the mother will understand the feeling towards father.
now calling someone daddy is not calling him actually father, but the name itself just gives a very slight impression of that feeling, I could imagine it. especially when you are 'not' having sexual activity can create a friendly and funny atmosphere.
Though personally I never did it or was comfortable with it. I always call by name but I don't think 'all' who do it are weird. It should be dependant to the personality of the girl also.
But mommy and the role of mother is totally different. A man naturally grows up to be very independent. if you see teenager boys when they hit puberty they will ignore mothers obsessive feeling about them, if a mother is very possessive she will annoy her son. they want freedom and independence while 'Mother' is the symbol of a child's dependency to parents.
Mother is like the earth. Son is like a Tree, when he grows up he grows up to go up towards the sky, in the opposite point of the earth. It actually many times 'ignores' the gravity of earth to go higher.
So it is not a healthy behaviour for a grown up man to be obsessed with the role of mother. He will love her own mother of course, but to call a woman mommy is not healthy for a grown up man. at least if he is heterosexual and identifies his gender as an independent masculine.
You say calling a man daddy can have some psychological reasons? Same can be said of calling a woman mommy. Psychological reasons don't automatically make something good or comfortable to the receiver.
I said the possible psychological reason. The role of father for a girl, especially maybe a more submissive daddy's girl. if there is another reason and the desire to call someone daddy is very obsessive then she is not healthy too.
Misogynistic. Please refrain from kink shaming.
@StayCurioussSss Misogyny is the hatred for women. She is criticizing MEN that have this kink. How is that misogyny?
Look I don't know where you are getting these facts and philosophy from but i can assure you that they don't seem to make much sense specially on the male part. Most teens want freedom from their parents and you are taking an outliner and generalising when you say a 'mother's obssessive feeling' and due to this reason I don't really see how it's wrong. But I'll give my explanation instead and let's see what you have to say about it, i believe that the reason womens don't like Being called mommy by a man is because it underestimate their role inside the relationship cause notion of mom is often affiliated with following acts:
1) giving up on resources: since father is supposed to be the main gatherer of resources in the family calling someone a 'daddy' basically means they are at an subconscious level doomed to share their resources with you and same goes for mom (which depends on father) except her work is to manage them for the child but people don't like someone putting an unnatural responsibility without any profit and same happens here.
2) a role of mother is also submissive in one way or the other: i believe the title is self evident but what i would like to say is that monder day women's don't like being treated as weak or even being destined to submit and it makes them paranoid about their freedom being stripped from them.
I very much admire RR, but wouldn't want to be called "mommy" unless kids were part of the picture.
Without kids it could be taken as a little derogatory. As in, "you treat me like a child so going to call you mommy".
It's a little, maybe a lot on the old fashioned side but it I was a Mom it could be taken as a compliment, in a round about way.
I heard or read someone talking about the terms mother versus Mom, Mommy and father / Dad. They said that anyone could be a mother or father by biological function. It takes a very special kind of love and caring to be a Mom, Mommy or Dad, Daddy. You see that demonstrated every day, both ways. Thinking along those lines Mommy would be a compliment.
No that's weird. Calling someone other than your dad "Daddy" is odd too. Unless you know, you're talking to the dog/cat/child. My dad calls me mummy but when talking to the cat, but that's because my cat thinks he's a dog and has learnt "Mummy" means me.
The only thing that could be hotter is if she raised me for 18 years and let me breastfeed while I sat through a parent teacher conference!
fucks sake
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hahahahahahahahaha I'm dying
Holy shit. Soooooo NOT the same thing.
One exception. If you're Hispanic, it's okay to call your girl "mami".
Why isn't it the same thing?
Seems equally gross to me.
Lol i said that same thing
Not that it sounds gross, but that it sounds better when you're hispanic
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My ex tried to get me to call him daddy.
I don't care if people like doing this with their partner.
But personally, I was completely creeped out and rejected it on spot.
Sometimes I find myself wanting to call my partner big bro, just jokingly, but I didn't say it because I don't find it this strong of an urge.
And no, I wouldn't like to be called mommy, I would find it amusing if someone called their girl so and be nonjudgmental, but I would shiver if I get called so by my dear boyfriend.
Some people use Daddy as a pet name and for others it's a dynamic in their relationship. If it works for them, great! Any dynamic can "swap" genders so if a dude wants to call his SO Mommy and she's okay with it who cares. I don't want to be anyone's mother in any sense, but I don't want to stop anyone from having fun with it.
No, that's really weird. The whole "Daddy" thing is weird too.
@rthomas43: I guess so. I'm not really sure how I'd react if my guy sprung the daddy thing on me though, lol. Even when he becomes a real dad.
Yes! As a female with a dominant personality it would be totally fine and cute if a guy called me mommy. As long as boundaries are not crossed a mommy kink/ age regressing is fine with both consenting adults.
In conclusion, being called mommy is very attractive.
Ew, no. I don't get the whole "daddy" thing in the first place. I do not want any guy to call me "mommy" unless I actually AM there mommy.
This one guy had a thing with daddy and I was already really creeped out by it but I liked him so I did and right then and there I had to end it I'm sorry but it's too weird I don't even like to say it.. If I'm that way unless I'm pregnant or am a mother then it'd be okay and cute for him to call me mommy but ONLY THAT for me
I'd call him Papi instead of Daddy. He can call me Mami (but only if he has that latino accent) otherwise I rather be called Rae or Bae
Lol I'm not Latina, but I can say it like one
I would find it weird, however I will mention that I have been called "mommy" by girlfriends, one in particular (my fiance's sister) and I do not find that v. weird, maybe a little annoying or a little cute depending on my mood.
I've been called mommy since I was 15 because my boobs are enormous so I'm used to it (I was called mommy by my friends so it was alright I had only been called mommy once when I was 15 by someone who wasn't my friend and it was weird because they were 18)
i dont think either of those names are ok for your significant other
I think the whole daddy thing is more of the guy being in a position of power than a girl actually secretly wanting to fuck her dad. I've never heard mommy used in a sexual situation EXCEPT when the guy has real mommy issues.
Mami... not Mommy. In my eyes, there is a difference. In most places 'Mami" is latin slang for baby/ honey/ sweety. Mami coming from Mamacita and/or Mamita.
It would make me feel awkward. There's only two people that call me that and that's because I pushed them outta the womb. And I don't think I could ever call a guy daddy. Wouldn't sit well.
I would not be okay with that.. The only person i would called " mommy" is my mom and the only person i would called
" daddy" is my dad!!
No and I have never called a bf daddy. That's just weird to me
🤣 I had an ex call me this Coz he was way younger than me. I said stop! 🤣 he’s like I love calling you that. I said I don’t want that! Gross
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I mean its kind of weird the way you make it sound.. Both are equally weird but it different when they say "Mami" Lol
I HATE the Daddy thing! Like it's freakin weird. And calling anyone besides your mother Mommy would be weird too.
Heck no. I think it is sick to call your partner mummy or daddy. Seriously are they calling their partners this because they are picturing fucking their own dads gross
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