My friends with benefits hasn't texted me in a week. Is he testing me?

[Anonymous]

Lol before I'd like to say I don't make any effort to see him and I usually respond to his text hours. I've never initiated a text. He ALWAYS text me first. If I promise a day to see him, if he doesn't text me that day I won't see him. This is the way I've always been with my to avoid getting feelings. He hadn't texted me in 6 days, you think he went bye bye and found someone else? Lol or is he testing me? Your thoughts? I mean is there something underlines it when my fwb hasn't texted me in a week?

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[Kris85]

Three days is no big deal. When I have had fuck buddy's sometimes I wouldn't hear from them for a week or two. We would only text when sex was on the table for that night. We didn't text about anything else and we didn't talk about our lives with each other. We kept all that out.

[Asker]

Ah okay thanks. This is my new friends with benefits and new to the whole thing. Were you expected to leave instantly after sex, because it does bother me a bit

[Asker]

I know it's normal but it still feel bad. So I'm cold as well

[Asker]

He don't rush me though

[Kris85]

They usually came to my house and yes they did leave right away which I was more than fine with. I don't cuddle or bond with my fuck buddies. I save all that for my boyfriend.

[Asker]

We have cuddled... lol

[Kris85]

Then you risk things becoming complicated and one or both of you catching feelings. It's usually the woman and the man doesn't stick around long enough for him to catch any. That's why they are fuck buddies. It happened to me a time or two when I was quite young.

[Asker]

No then i have to stop then. Sometime he initiates it and sometime I don't.

[Asker]

Sometimes i do* i guess the making out is limited should

[mhrich]

Why is my friends with benefits reaching out to our friend and not me

[Stacyzee]

It's okay to be a bit distant but at least show him that u want him too.
Text him and says, what's up? Let's get together

[Asker]

Well after sex he expects me to leave which makes me feel a wasted a fucking trip for 15 min. He acts awkward and uncomfortable before and after sex

[Arianna16]

maybe he has feelings for you then or just doesn't want to be friends with benefits @asker

[Stacyzee]

Because he probably feels the way u do. He probably doesn't want to catch feelings

[razelove]

from the ground rules you laid out, it sounds like you aren't much of a friend with few benefits... He probably just found someone else more accessible that pays more attention to any degree. If you say ONS or NSA I'd get it, friends with benefits generally has the open option of the feels granted both parties feel that way. Not necessarily the need to be so guarded.

[ShesRad80]

he may just be busy, unfort a friends with benefits you aren't treated as a priority but hang in there could be anything really.

[Anonymous]

Why would he test you? He knows that you are f*ck buddys so there is no need to test you. I have a feeling you want more from him other friend with benefits just by the comments you left.

[Asker]

I'm not crazy for him. You know how many times I see him...1 every 10 days. He whys it every other day and so he still exclusively still sees me

[Opinion Owner]

What do you mean exclusively still see's you? All I'm saying is be careful because if a man enters into friends with benefits its usually sex is all his looking for. Usually the girl ends up with more feelings and the guy does a runner.

[Asker]

He's only seeing me. He's not seeing anyone. I just did it odd he gets shy and awkward around me before and after sex. Lol he never use to act like this. He's just very shy around me. He use to be funny and outgoing, now he's more to himself with these nervous ticks

[Opinion Owner]

But you don't know if his only seeing you to be honest. His probably shy before and after because it is just sex to him so its a bit uncomfortable if you're not having sex he doesn't know where to put himself with you. Friends with benefits are a bad idea someone always gets burnt in the end.

[Nikki1989]

He shouldn't be texting you much at all. He is a friends with benefits, he should act like it.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

It's an friends with benefits, whoopty doo, you're not a relationship. Why stress over something so unimportant?

[Anonymous]

three days is nothing i think. he could just have a belly ach and not want any action right now.

[robocop666]

whats wrong with not talking to someone in a week?

[In_Trance]

maybe he's busy