If you think its going to be really uncomfortable watching a film, how do you even do anything normal couples do together.
Surely because he's your boyfriend he should make you feel comfortable and safe, the film and whatever the film may be shouldn't affect that.
He may be being turned on by the girl, but you will also be turned on by the guy.
Also, your watching it to see the situation, if anything he wants to experience that with you, not the women in the film.
Just as an aside, I'm sure he has watched p*rn before, and not told you. You shouldn't get jealous or uncomfortable as that's what everyone does, and its only fantasy, his thoughts and fantasies won't be a reality, unless he does it with you. If he still makes you uncomfortable, maybe he isn't the right guy.
So, feel free to ask for moe advice and whatever you want
Hope this helps.
We're not those type of couple to watch p*rn together and things like that I don't know how bad the sex sences are that's why I'm asking.
As its a film, its obviously not going to be anything like something from a p*rn video, and the scenes will probably last a couple of minutes, not that long. That would be my guess, there usually isn't anything extreme in these films. If not just google and see how long the scenes are. It's a film from a book, not a p*rn film, so it will definitely not contain anything too inappropriate. So i would have thought that having your bf there with you would make you feel more safe and comfortable if anything. Or thats how i see it. Also when i said how do you do things normal couples do, i didn't refer to watching p*rn together, because it isn't. I meant like intercourse, and doing personal and private things together. Like, how intimate are you?
She's really not that attractive. Is it really any different than him watching p*rn ... except this would have a better plot line. If anything he'd just get ideas to try with you. You have to trust him more he's not going for the actress.
Sweetie, he watches p*rn and he most likely gets turned on by a lot of girls in everyday life. He's a guy, it's normal and it's something you can't and shouldn't control. If he wants to get a sexual kick from it, he could do that through p*rn , not through a movie in the cinema with his girlfriend. So what if he gets turned on, it doesn't mean he's going to leave you or that he doesn't love you? He's not bothered about you getting turned on by Christian Grey. The book was written for women's pleasure and women have already been arrested for masturbating in the cinema, yet you don't see him worried. You shouldn't be either.
He most likely wants to see it because it's had huge hype and he wants to see how good/bad it is for himself. Just go, enjoy it, laugh about it and let it go over your head.
I've heard it's a terrible film anyway.
Probably your bf does. as for me I don't get turned on by guys on a daily but maybe that's just how your relationship works. Were not that type but you wouldn't understand. Don't call me sweetie cause I'm older than you.
No wonder you have a problem with this, you can't even accept that your boyfriend checks out girls and watches p*rn . Neither do I, but it's different for men and everyone's different. How could you possibly know? How am I supposed to know? I was only being nice, don't take it patronizingly.
Wow wow wow I mean what girl would. I'm sure he has but how you say it everyday I doubt. We're not the type to watch pork together I asked because I don't know how bad the movie is sexually it would just feel uncomfortable
I went and saw the movie with my boyfriend and we were cuddling in the theater and it was an awesome experience. The only awkward part was that we were in a sold out theater and there were some parents there with their kids and the movie is essentially p*rn in some scenes. If you are there with him chances are he is going to be more turned on by thinking about what he could be doing to you than what is going on on screen. As long as you will feel comfortable essentially watching p*rn with him then I would definitely go see it.
I'm gonna say Yes, you're a little crazy for this. It's a movie based on a book. You cannot control his reactions or his emotions to a movie. The chick is homely and not attractive at all. If he does get turn on it will be because of the thought of whatever they are doing not by the people doing it.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!The movie was such a disappointment! I don't think he will get turned on, usually it's the girls forcing their men to watch the movie because of it's "erotica" but you will be disappointed and so will he, so if thats a reason to watch it so he doesn't get turned on then do it haha. It's not uncomfortable, there's nudity, but it's not like watching p*rn , plus if he gets turned on by a naked girl, it's only normal it doesn't mean he's thinking of her more than you. x
Really? .... Doesn't he have any better idea of something to do? Just tell him you won't watch things that you believe won't do any good to you, tell him you are not a follower, you are a leader and you will do want you want.. And if you don't want to watch it than don't, he should respect that
I hope he doesn't get turned on by her, she's pathetically wet and weak.
She's not that hot. It's not that he's going to be turned on by her. He's going to be turned on by the action. That's a key difference.
Okay. Was it a lot of sex scenes?
I haven't seen it. But this is a blanket answer for any movie with sex scenes, or tbh hardcore p*rn . Not many guys search for p*rn by actress, they search by sex act. That should tell you something.
This. p*rn is about the sex acts being performed, not the actresses in it. Replace any actress with any other actress and it makes no difference.
basically i find it strange that a guy likes this... huh :-/
I think he just wants you to go with him so you can make out and do other things in the dark.
its a movie. he watches p*rn regularly so you have nothing to be insecure about. go and watch it with him if you want.. if not than don't ;)
Well no shit.
Calm down. It's just a movie. You don't control who he can get turned on by
Don't be one of those girls. yes watch it
Nope. I feel the same way you do.
Seriously?
Every guy I know dreads seeing that film. Good for him, I guess. :')
He's a keeper, lmao. Literally out of like every dude I know. They all hate it.
Go with him!
Really well I guess it shouldn't 've that bad aha
Nooo I feel excactly the same way although my boyfriend uninterested in this film I still totally think you have the right to feel that way.
it honestly isn't even that bad of a movie, it's really good. i saw it with my bf and other people, nothing happened. Lol, you should watch it with him.
The girl getting overpowered is prob what he wants to see, and no your not crazy lool
No you're not. Tell him if he wants to watch it, watch it alone and that he can't use anything he sees, on you
No just go watch it with him if he likes u a lot then he will be thinking of u when something sexual comes on trust me
Girls are into 50shades of grey maybe that is why he wants to watch it with you. Maybe he wants to get dominated or wants to dominate you in your sexual activities as a couple for more idea
www.yourtango.com/.../what-guys-really-think-your-50-shades-grey-obsession
i want to watch that movie, too
Don't bother. It sucks.
Why do you say that?
Go see it. You'll understand why.
Here, this might help:
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2322441/
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