If you overheard your crush call you hot?

[Anonymous]

What would you reaction be if you heard your crush call you hot behind your back? Would you make a move or start flirting after knowing that your crush thinks you're hot?

I would start flirting or make a move

i still wouldn't flirt or make a move

[WhiteSteve]

Hmm, well the closest experience I have to that is this girl I worked with a few years back. I was in a weird rocky period with my gf at the time, so I was taken but my head was in a weird place. This girl, we were definitely attracted to each other but never acted on it, although there was a close call when I was at her birthday party and we were drunk. She gave me the "hey, do you want to see my room?" line, and I was like "sure." We get up there and she was showing my paintings she had done, etc, but then she stopped and was giving me the "go for it" eyes. I really wanted to, but I don't live like that, so I was like "uhh, I think I'm up next on the Beirut table, I better go check.", and we left, but I could tell she was like "uhhh... what?" Probably the only time this girl has ever been turned down, she was hot stuff🔥 Anyway, that's just a preamble to provide background to the point of this. So like a month later she starts dating my boy Nick that we also worked with. People confuse us all the time, although his hair is closer to red than blond. But guys would come up to me at bars like "Yo Nick! Whattup, where's Caroline?" (that girl), or they'd come up to him and call him Steve, etc. I thought it was just others who confused us. But one night all of us were at a house party, and I was standing there with a beer just hanging out, and Caroline is across the room talking to another girl we worked with, and they were looking over at me and kind of smiling, which I pretended not to see. Then I overhear Caroline say "[inaudible stuff]... Steve is like a big, strong, sexy version of Nick." I was like "HELL-O!", haha, but at the same time, I felt bad because Nick was a real good dude, and I felt bad that it seemed like I was her first choice and she ended up going for him. But if our situatios were different and I heard her say something like that, I would have played it cool for like 5 minutes, then I'd have been right over there gaming her up. Green means "GO", haha

[Illusive_Man]

Well if her "HAWT!" list unrolls will it be as long as sanfranciso to chicago is as far?
If so , probably will flirt just a bit to see where it goes but I don't know. It's hard to tell sometimes if she's "INTO" you or INTO INTO you.

[Anonymous]

although it may be a complement, I wouldn't take it in the right way... just cuz i or my friends says someone is hot, doesn't mean I would date them... they are just physically attractive. So in the same regard, if I heard my crush say that about me, I would feel self conscience and unsure if he is judging me on my body or wants to actually date me.

[Asker]

you wouldn't feel more confident about yourself around him?

[Opinion Owner]

Im genuinely confident, but a statement like that would make me try harder and always try to look my best

[Anonymous]

OMG my crush compliments me all the time. But I'm scared if I reciprocate it will scare him off. I'm seeing him soon at a mutual friends bday. If he compliments me again I'm gonna act yolo

I just did a similar Q. Answer please :)

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1357252-guys-how-would-you-react-if-you-ve-been-complimenting-a-female-friend

[Asker]

Would you feel more confident about yourself around him if you heard him say you're hot?

[Opinion Owner]

He says it to my face every time I see him LMAOO. At first I used to get pissed off because I thought it was some sick joke since he's amazing but yes It definitely has boosted my confidence to the point where I'm ready to reciprocate

[Anonymous]

Well my crush called me pretty, nice and can sing well and that there is a possibility we could end up together when my friend asked him.

I haven't made a move because I dont want to mess it up

[Asker]

after knowing that the guy you like thinks you're hot did you feel more confident about yourself around him?

[Opinion Owner]

Well now whemever I look into the mirror I feel beautiful haha
I feel a LITTLE morr comfortable with him but I would rather him aproach me to show jis interest

[Asker]

That's good but you don't need a guy to have confidence

[Asker]

Or to feel beautiful

[Opinion Owner]

I know, I am already confidant. It just really boosted my confidence that much more.

[Southerngirl99]

I would be giddy for a while and let him make the first move. But after the initial giddiness wore off, I would be wondering why he was talking about me behind my back.

[Asker]

You wouldn't feel more confident around him?

[Southerngirl99]

It honestly depends. I more than likely would feel more confident, but still, talking about me behind his back with his buddies would make me wonder.

[Asker]

Girls talk about guys they think are hot behind the guys back too. how is that weird at all)?

[Southerngirl99]

I don't talk about how guys are hot behind their back, I might think it, but I don't gossip about it : )

I'd rather him at least talk to me and seem interested in me first at least. Now, if I just had a crush on him from afar and we never talked or anything I would think that it was odd. I would wonder why he had never talked to me before.

[Southerngirl99]

Ok, I admit that I may talk about actors and singers, but that is different. They are fair game : )

[aficionado]

Voted A! Just a hypothetical situation though, because I can never be 'hot'! :P

[Asker]

Cute or attractive for guys I guess. But I agree I would be more confident around her

[DumpliingPrincess]

I wouldn't flirt. My insecure mind would automatically make me think they were joking or I was hearing things that weren't actually said.

[nert73]

I wouldn't just suddenly starting acting like I'm in love with him. I'd actually think it's weird that he's talking like that about me behind my back.

[Asker]

How is that weird? He finds you attractive

[nert73]

Yes, but he's telling people he thinks I'm hot. I'm not really sure of the right word for it, but weird is pretty close.

[MaiNameIsSunshine]

Yeah I agree with @nert73, I'd say it's odd that the guy won't say that to my face, it is weird to think about people talking about you in such a manner without you knowing about it, creepy perhaps is a more suitable word...

[Asker]

I'm sure girls say so and so is hot behind so and so's back all the time. Am I right? What's the difference?

[nert73]

I agree with @MaiNameIsSunshine
@Asker I'm not one of those girls that swoons over every "cute" guy. I don't think a guy is hot until a long time into a relationship. I just don't think of guys the same way most girls do. I have a boyfriend, anyway. I'm not going to drool over every guy you think I should think is "hot" just because I'm a girl.

[Asker]

Would you feel more confident about yourself around him at least?

[nert73]

No... again I say: I have a boyfriend and I don't think of guys the way most girls do.

[Asker]

Clearly I mean if you didn't have a bf

[nert73]

Clearly I don't care. I wouldn't think that way about guys even if I didn't already have a guy to myself. I'm just not that kind of girl.

[Asker]

Ok get over yourself

[nert73]

What is there to get over? I'm awesome, bitch.

[NateInAk]

I'd start seriously questioning her judgement.

[Asker]

Why?

[NateInAk]

Because she obviously has a warped view of reality :D

[Asker]

you need some confidence

[NateInAk]

Nah, I've got plenty of confidence in myself as a person, I'm just a realist when it comes to my looks :p

[Asker]

Work on that you're still young

[BelleGirl21]

There'd be no stopping me!!!

[Anonymous]

I'd flirt like crazy. Tell him, hot too and wink.

[Asker]

Would you feel more confident about yourself around him if you heard him say you're hot?

[Opinion Owner]

Absolutely!

[Klaatu51]

i'd be like ---> : O

[Asker]

Good way or bad?

[Klaatu51]

good!

[GoldCobra]

I'd flip shits

[Asker]

Would you feel more confident about yourself around him if you heard him say you're hot?

[Asker]

*Her

[GoldCobra]

Yeah