Do players get lonely?

[Anonymous]

I dont know why but i always feel like they're unhappy people. i feel really bad for them, despite the fact that they are jerks and they probably dont care that they make others feel bad.

They're always out partying, they know tons of people they always have girls to do. but at the end of the day, do they ever feel lonely?

I keep thinking about this guy. And yes i was starting to get feelings for him and for a while i started to think that he was getting feelings for me too. He was extra sweet. he always made effort to talk to me. he used to act like a perv but i ignored it and acted like i didn't notice. he started to get to know me and see that im just some sweet and innocent girl and he calmed down. he always defended me and it was great. at work, he tells me he loves me, and he touches me a lot.

but one night, we got drunk with a few coworkers and he was being so touchy and kept hugging me. he ended up hugging me from behind and he was staying a lot of weird. stuff. he kept telling me he didn't want to let me go and all this stuff. i figured he was drunk so i didn't take it seriously.

he sounds needy to me. recently he told me he was talking to a girl and i think thats his girlfriend now. and i was told, they've only known eachother for at most a week.

i've noticed the guy is very moody and temperamental. He tells my friend he wants to win me over. he's always telling me he's very sweet and loving. i dont doubt it. but i am just afraid of getting hurt so i keep my distance.

but i was wondering, if maybe this guy feels lonely or something? his drunk attitude made me wonder. i know he doesn't like me that way. but it just makes me thing he's lonely. or am i just imagining things? are players actually happy?

[Anonymous]

Being a Player has it's moments as does everything in life. It is a good feeling to play the game and watch anticipated reactions/actions and similarly actions and reactions you wouldn't expect, it can be entertaining and the sex factor plays a role as well. But don't hate the Player, hate the game. Some only know that way of life.
It does, as you've asked, get very lonely. More so when you see a couple who have that spark you long for but never quite find in their eye and this brightness on their face and you wonder what happened to you. So hurt you retreat to what you know solves your problems and that's to play the game. And that's why we play the Game, to distract ourselves and the more you play the better you become :)

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for the MHO, I hope that helps

[yourfriendforever]

Actually to be honest they're not happy
Being a player is their nature they sometimes do things they don't want
At night they live it all and regret
But the next day they're the same because it's their habit/nature/in blood or whatever
So yeah they do feel lonely...

[Prof_Don]

I feel every guy tires of the "player lifestyle" eventually.

[Asker]

I see. i guess he must be tired of it maybe? its weird because he acts like he's this really skanky guy and the other day one of his friends came and she made it seem like he's the type that falls easily. he got all embarrassed.