*Honest feedback appreciated* Your opinions on large men and women?

[thelizardqueen84]

Okay, there are ALWAYS jokes about our more robust citizens, right? It's one of the last few prejudices that is (throughout America anyway) still widely accepted. I just want honest feedback here. You won't piss me off or offend me no matter how hard you try (take that as a challenge if you will, idgaf because I don't know you anyway and I loooove it when people try to get under my skin). I want HONEST answers here, all right? Don't namby-pamby with me, ladies and gents, and don't go getting the idea that I just want positive feedback, okey doke? Tell me what you think - whatever it might be. Talk all the crap you want to ME - just don't bash other people who might be sensitive about it because that's not cool you @$$holes! It's NEVER cool to hurt someone, all right? If you're grown and you're doing that (even if you think you're helping them) you seriously need to take a step back, break away, and do a little soul-searching, okay? How would you feel if someone came down on you for being who you are? Not too good, I bet. Not too fucking good.
P. S. I am a fat chick and always have been. I'm extremely curious about this.

I'm cool with everyone

I dislike anyone who's different than me

I'm beyond giving a fuck anymore

[mutedaisy]

Georgia is probably one of the fattest states I've lived in. Being this skinny female it's actually kind of hard. Guys like fat chicks way more. What I noticed when I first came here, was that fried food, buttered bisques and large meals were a thing here. I stopped going to church, because after service, they would eat and expect me to eat. I never refuse a meal, but enough was a enough. I wasn't going to put that stuff in my body. I can see how obesity is flourishing here. I don't mind fat people, my best friend is 5'8" and 230 (just did the best friend thing lol) Anyway, I will tell anyone and everyone that they give the best hugs hands down. I just can't deal with seeing people having a hard time walking 20 feet. I'll choke up if a see kids like this, because they don't know any better than to do what adults do and eat what adults give them. It's just not right.

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Just posting this because I thought it was disturbing.

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[ishplump]

Being a bigger girl myself I have no problems with it, and the name calling and ridiculed stop once I enter my junior and senior years of high school. I happen to be one of the bless bigger people who have a very nice shape bigger boobs and butt gives me a more curvy shape than most. And while I don't dislike bigger people I do resent those that give us a bad name, not wearing clothes that fit them looking like they gave up on life. If you have confidence don't look like the world is out to get you people won't make such nasty remarks. That being said to be healthy is key and while I don't have any medical problems right now I know if i don't at least lose a bit of weight it can become a problem in the future. It one thing to be happy and coincidence in your skin it's another being oblivious to the effects it have on your body.

[smilesarenice]

I like fat people because I am one. But beyond that I like people. All sizes. I don't like that there is a different clothing world for big girls. If I can stand on my soap box: I don't understand how adding two inches of fabric changes the whole design? If I liked it in an XL why is it a completely different shirt in a 2X?
Beyond that I think fat people have a different view on the world and unless they take the defensive, they seem to be more understanding of others and their faults

[heavensgift2girls]

People have always looked down on others for things like race, gender, or sexuality. Because those things are not seen as a choice, and discriminating against someone for something they can't help is looked down on, people have moved on to discrimination against things people can help, such as being fat or being a smoker.

People openly hate on anyone that they see as making bad choices about their health, under the guise that shaming them enough may save their life. In truth it has nothing to do with helping them. It is just old fashion snobbery. People should be free to live their own lives without being made fun of, and made to feel inferior for their personal choices.

I really think if people didn't have to worry about being called out for being a racist, sexist, or a bigot, that the same people preaching hate against fat people, would go back to preaching hate against minorities and other such groups. The people making fun of fat people and smokers are just trash, looking for any excuse to hate on other people.

[Metlahead]

While I don't prefer bigger girls, I have had many good experiences with them sexually. In general, depending on how big they are exactly, I may judge them poorly on their lifestyle choices. The ones I judge poorly would not receive my attention. There is a certain appeal for bigger girls, but within reason. Within that reason, I would not think any less or more of them as people for the size that they are, and it would still come down to natural attraction and a good personality.

I don't think I would go much bigger than this:
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[bryon]

Maybe it's just me but I have been attracted to more robust full figured women all my life. They seem more down to earth and a damn site more realistic than others that are smaller built. The only statistics that I have to back this claim is the life that I have lived. I have never liked to cuddle or hug a stick framed woman and doubt that will ever change. That just me

[BertMacklinFBI]

I don't feel anything about bigger people like seriously im used to it. I live in America. but the bigger people tend to be the older folk in my area, ya know in their mid 40s to 50s and they got big bellys. the younger crowd are pretty normal for the most part but even if I see bigger younger people its chill as fuck. I love diversity and there must be a balance.

[becca123]

I have nothing against bigger people. Not my cup of tea, but it's there lives and they should live them as they please.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

I don't care if someone is fat. they aren't as good looking as an in shape person but I don't think badly of them

[TonyRyan]

When I see people who are so big they use a scooter or their belly looks like a butt, I think to myself "Man... that last Twinkie better have Been worth it...".

[smexiliciousss]

I don't hate fat people but of course people will always make jokes about them

[tenofthepeaks]

don't mind them, but then such is life if they get harassed.

[tl656]

I'd prefer someone bigger then someone just bone.