Am I the only one that feel like its degrading towards women when men uses women as bootycalls?

Belliebella


Am i the only one that feel like its degrading towards women when men uses women as bootycalls? Guys that do this basically are categorising some women as just good for sex. Ofc this doesn't apply when they have a mutual understanding of the relationship, and they both benefit, both emotionally and physically from the it.

Some people you just find attractive and you dont want to date them, i personally dont see a problem with that. But when these guy, pretty sure there are som girls too, lie and manipulate others and make them belive they are actually important to them kinda disgust me. Its basicly the same principle when woman uses men for their money, degrading them to an atm.

If you only want sex, be real about it, and if tha particular girl wants more then just that there are plenty of other girls that would like an arrangement like that im sure. I have been in a situation where i have been degraded to someone just to have sex with, except the fact that i didn't have sex with them. When they found out i wasn't going to sleep with them without some sort of commitement they were gone before i knew it. Now i know that this fact doesn't have anything to do with me as a person, i didn't know that then, and it really effected my self estem. I felt liked my personality wasn't "good enough" or that i wasn't a fun or interesting person, because i could understand why they only wanted me for my body. Im older now and i have come to realise i am a interesting and fun person, and the fact that those guys in the past only wanted sex had nothing to do with me, but it was all about them and what they wanted from the situation.

Seriously guys, why do you do this to women? its really degrading and im not suprised if women end up with self estem issues because some guys have used them or only wanting them for their bodies. If you really want sex that much why not go to a bar or at elast have sex with someone that is on the same page as you and that gets as much as you get our of the sitaution? i dont get, but then again, im not a guy
Am I the only one that feel like its degrading towards women when men uses women as bootycalls?
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