What does the expression "hop on one's dick" means?

[Anonymous]

I was talking to my bf and we had a fight, that I got pretty angry. It was basically about sex. In the end he sort of agreed but said "just don't hop on my dick like that". Thing is, I'm not from an English speaking country and I didn't quite get what he meant. Does anyone know what does this expression mean? Thanks a lot!

[emmabee11]

i think he means to not annoy him like that during sex and just do what he wants, he's feeling very unsatisfied, another term for that is "Don't fussy put around", i'm English but i've never heard anyone say "don't hop on one's dick" though lol i guess it's his own slang expression.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

It could also mean don't bust my balls , I'm trying to make this work

it might not all be your problem , he was angry about sex and

basically might mean don't bust your ass coming to please him sexual

it's hard to say i am little confused.

[Asker]

Yeah I'm not sure how to explain the whole thing better... I invited him to come over Saturday night (to have sex) and he said he was coming, then I asked again today and he said he might not come bc he had been invited to a party, but he could come then leave at 11:30. I got upset started asking why he treats me this way, and he said I was acting like the victim and that I was mad at him not bc of the time we'd spend together but bc he was going to a party. I replied that what was upsetting me is that I didn't want it to be some "pre-party" thing. He said he wasn't going then but for me not to "hop on his dick like that". Lol is it better? I feel like I just wrote you an essay sorry ab that xD

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

I agree you shouldn't have to pre-party for you two to have sex
well it sounds like he needs to get his priorities straight
yeah i see what you mean it sounds like a figure of speech

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Thank you for mho :)
I hope things get better for you :)

[Asker]

Thank you! He hasn't talked to me since the fight too so I hope too hahah. And you're welcome :)

[Anonymous]

ride on his dick basically... although i find it kind stupid tbh

[Asker]

but wouldn't that be the literal meaning?

[Steezypeezy]

It’s hard to say because you didn’t really leave any context of the argument other than it was about sex but my guess is he was saying don’t pressure him into sex if he’s not in the mood. Let it be mutual. Don’t annoy him about sex is my guess, but I don’t know the context of the argument so I can’t say for sure.

[bde0001]

no, he's means get off his back, as in leave him alone. he wanted to end the big fight. he didn't wanna here it anymore. he was done fighting.

[Octavion]

It's the same as brown nosing.

[Asker]

I'm not sure what that means either...

[Octavion]

You just do and say what he wants you to do and say to make him happy and get in his favor. It's like sucking up to him.

[Asker]

But that's exactly the opposite of what I did. Ah this doesn't make any sense. When we were fighting I tried some "emotional blackmail" to get what I wanted - I know, this sounds awful. Maybe he meant that I was saying things to get what I wanted? Not sure