Girls, Am I wrong to be hurt and offended that my GF didn't even wish me a happy birthday?

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Girls, Am i wrong to be hurt and offended that my GF didn't even wish me a happy birthday

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[PeachSunset]

Yes!!! You can't just see this as a little thing and sweep it off your shoulder, don't overreact and be a jerk about it. But a good, loyal gf would have definitely wished you a happy birthday. Although, if she did a birthday part or took you somewhere and did lots of things she might have been so caught up in trying to make it a happy birthday for you that she simply forgot, and this is probably ok.

[XRabbitHeartX]

I'd be really upset if I was with a guy who didn't remember my bday :((

That would be so sad... voted A

[Asker]

Would you be even more upset if he remembered but didn't feel the need because he didn't think it was necessary

[XRabbitHeartX]

Yeah it would be even worse...

[Anonymous]

Wrong vote. meant to choose "A" .

It is seriously a horrible thing , I guess you should discuss with her about this matter and if things don't work.. There are millions of girls all over the world and few in your 'friend circle ' might be crushing on you.😉

[Anonymous]

Ah... don't feel too bad. My man forgot my birthday last month. I was a little hurt. Especially since three weeks before I made a bid deal out of his birthday. I didn't expect a gift or anything, but a phone call or a text would have been nice. A week later, I mentioned it to him, and all he said was, "oops, my bad." So... you're not alone. But, hey, Happy Birthday!!!

[dipta]

Wow. I hope you're kidding =(

[Opinion Owner]

I wish I was kidding, too!

[overthinkingmind]

Oh, I'm sorry that happened to you. I would be upset too, if that happened to me.
But try don't get too offended by that, maybe she was really busy or something. Did she remembered the day after or something?

[JamielovesKU]

Maybe she forgot... I have a close friend that knows when my birthday is, and he didn't wish me a happy birthday :( It sucks, but I didn't make a big deal out of it, I just assumed he forgot.

[Asker]

I reminded her the day before

[JamielovesKU]

:( Maybe she's planning a surprise party?

[Asker]

Birthday was yesterday so

[JamielovesKU]

Im sorry to hear that :(

[pretty_minds]

wow, thats really bad but then again she could have dimly forgotten but thats no exception ur birthday is the one thing she should remember even tho she's busy

[pretty_minds]

simply*

[IndependentGal15]

Yeah, You do have the right. That's all that needs to be said. Especially if you reminded her the day before. I would be pissed haha

[amarahorrorstory]

No, I would be too. You should mention it to her. I'm sorry, I hope you had a good birthday! (Could anyone help me with my most recent question?)

[MixedTwit]

If u guys just started dating I would understand cuz she could have not known but it's it's been a while then I would be a little hurt too

[Vesuvius87]

Wrong vote. Meant to to choose A.
Time to reconsider the relationship, esp if you informed her and she knew very well about it.

[AshleyMD]

Depends the context, did you tell her you care about your birthday, did you remind her?

[Asker]

I reminded her the day before that the next day is my birthday. Aside from that, i feel like i shouldn't have to remind her. She would obviously get offended if i forgot hers

[AshleyMD]

Sounds like she may have been in the wrong but I don't know exactly what happened.