I was hanging out with my girlfriend of half a year and my friend and she went out for a second to talk to her sister. My friend asked me randomly if I thought this chick in our science class was hot and I said "I'd fuck her so hard" and he said "have you fantasized about her" and I said "ive thought about fucking her and imagined her naked " and he said "i can't find her on Facebook or Twitter or anything. I kinda want her number" and I was like "I kinda want her babies"
my girlfriend heard the entire conversation and she confronted me about it after my friend left and broke up with me.
If it this happend to you would you break up with your boyfriend?
- I'd dump himVote A
- I wouldn't dump himVote B
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It's one thing to be attracted to other people. Your girlfriend might not LIKE it, and probably doesn't want to hear about it, but she should be able to understand it. But you laid out a fantasy life with this other girl. It's not just "I want her babies", which is about the future, but could be taken a joke. You mentioned not finding her online, which means you were looking, which means you were putting in time and effort, even if it was minimal. All of that already implies that you were with your girlfriend just 'cause you couldn't be with the other girl -and having that conversation while she was present and could overhear probably meant that she took it as you not caring at all about her.1