I went with this age range because its assumed that guys will be dating and be sexually active by that age unless they are too busy, devout religious person, aren't looking or too busy. I'm talking about the guys who want a girlfriend and/or want to date but never had a dae and/or a girlfriend. Do you remain confident, outgoing, positive hopeful despite never having a girlfriend , a kiss from a woman, and/or a date? If so why? Also what do y'all think about a guy like this?
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I haven't had success in years, just a few regrettable encounters, and one that pushed me over the edge (couldn't get a date and it got really ugly).
Yet, my mentality has matured to a point where having a girlfriend doesn't matter, and I find joy in other areas of life, areas that I can control. You can't control women, so "hoping" for one is hinging your happiness on a sucker's bet. You're going to lose most of the time, if not all of the time.
You stay confident by being confident. How do you become confident? Do things that you enjoy doing and that you're really good at. That's how you become confident. Chasing girls is how you shatter your confidence, so stop doing it. That's what's worked for me, generally. Overall, my colleagues find me more appealing because of this shift in mindset.1