What is your biggest social flaw you are consciously aware of?

Mine is eye contact. I tend to be a little intense with eye contact when I give all of my focus to someone and it makes them nervous, which then makes me aware of what I am doing and then I have trouble focusing on what the person what saying in the first place.


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Most Helpful Girl

  • OMG I have the SAME problem!

    When I give customers at work my full attention, I look them straight in the eyes and have this focused/relaxed look on my face and they get all mean/weird towards me...

    I have to force myself to smile and act all super happy/enthusiastic so people don't think I am some kind of bitch...

    I really hate the fact that I have resting bitch face.

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What Girls Said 5

  • I tend to touch too much, and some people aren't comfortable with that especially if we're not close.

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    • I don't mind touchy people, although it does startle me because not many people are touchy. Especially dudes, because manliness and not being gay and stuff.

  • Resting bitch face, for sure.

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    • Sometimes I try to force myself to smile when there is nothing to smile about, takes a LOT of energy

    • I feel like doing that makes people look insane though. I'm not going to walk down the street with a big fake smile on my face - I don't want to be committed to an institution.

    • But, just think about those cozy padded cells. I'm gonna go smile at a police officer right now, bet I'll be committed by the end of the night

  • Being overly obnoxious lol

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  • I'm popular but I'm socially awkward so I don't have a clue what's going on on today's world.

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    • booty, curves, deez nutz and 24/7 relationship sob fests.

      Congratulations, you are caught up!

  • I stammer or stutter over words and when that gets too humiliating I get the hiccups!

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What Guys Said 11

  • I look pissed pretty much all the time, regrettably when I am pissed it's even worse in that I have a terrible scowl, enough that my kids friends have been afraid of me. The irony is despite my looks while I do have a certain intensity, I'm really a pretty nice guy (better agree with me or I'll kneecap you!) Kidding, kidding. I am working on this aspect of my personality unfortunately it would seem as I get older I am growing more and more cynical, which does nothing to help my expression.

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  • I can't small talk to save my life - I only talk to people I know - If I get stuck with a stranger for them it is like getting blood from a stone to get conversation out of me.

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    • I have the opposite of that problem. I can't stand awkward silences so I try to force conversation, which either ends happily or fails miserably

  • My resting bitch face, but I refuse to smile if I don't have reason to.
    Other than that it'll be me sometimes being insensitive.

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    • Oh yeah, I am a member of the resting bitch face club.

  • i never smile in ublic... and people assume i'm angry... wrong though :/

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    • I have the same problem. Sometimes I feel like I'm smiling, and I'm not. I have to put a TON of energy into smiling when I have nothing to be smiling about

  • I can't connect with people. Pisses me off.

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  • Hmmm I don't really know.

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  • I'm the opposite of you, I CAN'T keep eye contact. And I have no conversation skills, I have a tendency to only talk about myself.

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    • It is easy to talk about yourself, after all, that's the person you know most about :P

  • I'm absent-minded and forget what people tell me to do sometimes.

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  • i can't always think of something to say.

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  • I've been known to interrupt people :/

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  • I just fucking hate most people, but I see that as their problem!

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