Here's one for you ladies... do you like chivalrous men anymore? Or are men wasting their time and effort with chivalry?
Most Helpful Girl
Depends on what you mean by chivalry. Holding the door is good manners. I appreciate it when a dude makes the first move because I'm shy. Standing until I'm seated is cute for a really formal date (especially a first date), but a bit much the rest of the time. I can order my own meals and pay for my own food/movie tickets -having the guy take care of things makes me feel on some level like he's trying to build up some sort of debt. Walking on the outside of the street is ridiculous -he has to move around me if we ever turn left, which is disconcerting, and it puts me in a position where I can feel trapped between him and a wall.2