When I first met my boyfriend he told me from the beginning that he had two children, a boy and a girl. As time went on I realized he only spoke about his son. One day I asked him about it and we had a long conversation. I left the situation alone. Today I met with my BF's sister and she told me how his daughter doesn't think her father cares about her. Although I never met his daughter, it really bothers me.
My father was always in my life no matter where in the world he was so I don't understand how it's not the same. Most woman wouldn't care if there boyfriend dealt with his kids but I do. It means a lot to me. I really want to speak about the situation to him again and try to convince him that a father means a lot to a child. I really want him to reach out to her and be in her life. Should I talk to him again or should I just stay out of it?
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In my mind, communication is key. I'm not sure how long you've been together. If it's early days, maybe don't make a big deal of it right away. If you've been with him a while and are committed, you should feel comfortable to bring it up. I'd avoid accusatory language and ask questions (rather than telling him how to change). Good luck!1