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It sounds like you have been doing everything possible. And that may be your problem. He sounds like he has gotten too comfortable in the relationship. He knows you will keep doing everything possible and that may even bother him a bit. You are not doing anything wrong, I just mean that it doesn't work for him. Tell him you would like to "date" again once in a while, and let him plan the date. Force him to think about you and what you like. Let him chase you for a change, because it is so obvious that you have been chasing him.
And for your attempts to excite him, do it in less obvious ways. for instance, when he hugs you he finds out you are not wearing a bra. (Or maybe when you bend over in a low blouse.) go commando at home sometimes. Get his interest up.0