i know attraction draws him in but does he even actually love her enough to stay? seems guys are always looking for opportunity for the next hot ass?
why is this?
i dont know if anyones even been in a long term relationship but it seems that after time men seem to take the woman for granted and think they deserve and can do better over time, actually leading to breakup...
Most Helpful Guy
I make seven figures per year, work out and perfect my body, soak a lot of time into self-improvement... what I've discovered is that other people can't keep up. I don't judge them for it, but they don't keep up... so am I supposed to settle?
Now, the typical guy probably has similar thoughts (even though he hasn't earned the right to think that way), looks at the average girl, and thinks "I can do better." And he usually can. Vice versa is usually true too, by the way, swapping the gender.
Truth is, most people do one of two things: they either inflate their ego, or they wallow in self-pity and self-loathing. Inevitably, relationships will break up because neither partner is typically ever being realistic in their thinking.
Odds are, you run into men with inflated egos... or you have a deflated ego that tempts them to behave inflated in comparison to you.1