he's very old and has never hit me before. he has anger management problems and im terrified. we were yelling at each other and i walked away and slammed the door shut. then he stomped in and opened the door really loud and yelled at me "IF YOU EVER SLAM THE DOOR IN MY FACE AGAIN ILL TAKE THE BELT OUT ON YOU UNTIL YOU LEARN YOUR LESSON" and he slammed the door on me and he didn't care. im so scared of him what do i do?
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No offense girl, but the first thing you do is start respecting your father in his household. You may not understand the magnitude of it now at this present age and phase of life, but parents work very hard to keep a roof over your head that includes air conditioning when it's hot and heating during winters full of blizzards, to keep you fed, and take care of your needs if you get sick or break a bone. I imagine it is extremely upsetting to commit your life's schedule, money, and energy into supporting a child then having them yell in your face and slam/possibly damage the property you pay for. No more disrespecting him on such a toxic level; that will help avoid situations like this.
Can't say for sure without knowing him but chances are if he has never hit you before then he was just angry, at his boiling point, and talking shit because you were so out of line and disrespectful that rational words weren't effective enough. Is your mother in the household? Any siblings?4