I don't know what it is but this girl has me going crazy. she's very attractive but not sexy by any means. I don't know why but I compare every girl to her and she's always in the back of my mind. I've felt this way for well over a year now and I don't even talk to her anymore she's just there. Is this infatuation or love?
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Infatuation is the state of being completely carried away by unreasoning passion or love; addictive love. Infatuation usually occurs at the beginning of relationship when sexual attraction is central. Love can be described as feeling of intense affection for another person. It is most often talked about as an emotion between two persons. Hence is also sometimes referred to as interpersonal.
Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. Love is always associated with connection between two souls that goes beyond the self. Infatuation may make the other person selfish if the opposite person's reaction isn't the same. Infatuation isn't pure like love and may be accompanied by lust. It is about thinking about oneself and not the other person.
I think I would say this is love at first sight, because you don't see her as an object, and the flame of lust is not going out, it.'a only growing bigger. It's a mix of both.0