they never cared about men and our problems nor would ever put in any effort to ever risk their lives to protect us in the first place?
As a man, I feel like I'm sick and tired of always doing what women want and get nothing out of it (no appreciation or reciprocation). I feel like whenever I protect women (who I personally know) from abusive boyfriends and stand up for them, I get constantly taken for granted for it. Whenever I've suffered public harassment and borderline-physical abuse at a park in my area from one of my ex gfs (I know this sounds silly because I'm a man but I never slapped my ex back because of the amount of backlash I'd get for slapping a girl out of teaching her to give me boundaries and personal space along with respect), I get laughed at in the fucking face by a group of women. The only rare time I've ever seen women that came in to protect their men is when is only when they're attacked by other men and the woman (jumping in to protect the male victim) is armed with a gun or deadly weapon.
I guess women think it's normal, legal and acceptable for other women to harass and harm men unprovoked and find it humorous. I know women here on the internet would most likely say that they'd help a man from a woman harming in but in reality, they'd never do jack shit and just laugh at him behind his back and are only saying that they will stop by and help us just to make a few men feel better. I might as well just let a woman get killed from her abusive bf/husband.
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Again, not all women... it could just be the area you are in that shows this more so than other places.
I feel the same about the guys from my past, why should I bother caring and working hard for them when they used me and took me for granted? Because they suck. Not all men, just the few I dated. I am hoping to find a man that can be my partner. Someone I can care for and support, and vice versa.
No one should harass anyone, that is not ok. Doesn't matter the gender or size or anything, just... no. You just need to find a woman that does care for you and not use you.2