My bestie and her boyfriend were dating for one month. They love eachother but the problem is that Her boyfriend hangs out with the girls and those girls hate my bestie. Before yesterday, The girls messaged her saying, ""stop treating Jason (her boyfriend) like shit, god you are awful lucky to have him" Mybestie didn't even do anything to him. They keep saying a lot of hateful things about her and she never did anything wrong to him. She is so mad and really depressed she started cutting herself. She's really stubborn and i've tried to stop her but she NEVER listens. I've not got involved, because i know i'd blow at them and i don't want to be that person. I'm really trying to help but it's going no where... i feel useless in this situation when i really want to help.
What should i do? :/
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You say you don't wanna get involved cause you'll blow at them and you don't wanna be that person, but you rather be the type of person to see her friend cutting herself?
You say your friend won't listen to you, but she does listen to what the other girls say. That's a huge problem she has and she has to change asap, cause listening to the hateful comments and avoid the helpful ones is causing her to hurt herself.
Her boyfriend should step up and say something to those girls, he should protect his girl, not stand and watch.
You should try to stop your friend from cutting herself, it doesn't matter if she doesn't listen, keep helping her. Also talk to her boyfriend and tell him that he has to do something cause it's causing problems to HIS girl. If things don't change, go to the girls and say something.0
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