My mom has basically called me fat and has always pointed out my flaws like my legs, stomach , hair and etc . She has caused me to hate my body so I can't even wear shorts without all of her comments on how ugly my legs were and how I should never go out in public like that. Or I can't stand to wear any bikinis because all I hear is her calling me fat. The thing is that in highschool I got in crazy good shape so I don't look like that but mentally I still think I was that girl (and it mention I was never obese, I was just not toned) . I want to stop thinking this but I don't know if I ever will? Advice?
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I know how hard it is to shrug off the opinion of your mother, simply because of the significance she has to your life, but please try to understand that possibly the reason she says this stuff is because she may be jealous that you're able to flaunt your body and she isn't
A lot of older women get jealous of younger people, even if it may be their own daughters, it sometimes reminds them of what they used to be able to do and cannot anymore or0
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