As some of you might know I am continental European and I've found that people seem to want to marry and have children much later here than in the US or Canada. So - assuming you actually want to marry and have children some day - what is the perfect age for it in your opinion? And are there any pre-conditions for it in your opinion, such as having your own house/appartment, having a job etc?
P. s. Don't say it's different for everyone. I know that. I'm asking for YOUR opinion.
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I don't think the word "perfect" should ever be used but if I had to pick an ideal age to get married and have kids, I would say 35 years old, at least in my opinion AND the way my life is going.
By the time I'm 35, I'm hoping my sex drive decreases (it happens for most males, where as women get hornier in their 30's) and by this time, I will be a teacher (hopefully) for eleven years and I will have a more stable income, which means I can support a family easier. Also, I don't want my freedom to be restricted for at least another decade.
The problem with me, if I get married right now (and many other males in my age group), is I'm way too horny and I will be tempted to cheat on my wife. I need to have sex with multiple women before I can get married, I'll say at least ten or so. Also, I'm BARELY financially stable right now (I live paycheck to paycheck), so it would be difficult for me to help support a family. Plus, I enjoy having the little bit of freedom I DO have.
That's just my two-cents though.0