My sister had a kid and today she turned 1 and I should love my niece but I just don't lol. It's like everyone talks about how some day I'll be a father and settled down and I can practice on my niece yet I don't see the joy of having my own family. Like I never see myself going home to my wife and kids and I guess I'm young and most men in my age range don't see themselves settled down but i just hate the thought of a love and having my own family.
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I had a kid when I was in your age range.
And I <3 him to death!
It's okay to not be ready for kids of your own... or even a family.
But to not love your niece...
I think that's pretty weird and uncommon.
She's your blood... you should!!
That should be natural.
When I was far younger than you... I could always picture myself marrying some day and having kids.
I find it strange that you can't even visualize that now.
Perhaps, you never want kids?
If so, that's okay.
But eventually the dating girl after girl phase gets old.
You'll want someone eventually to be with forever (even if you don't reproduce)0
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