I try not to overthink things but at the gym i go there's a common shower room and like 80% of guys are fucking elephants in dick size - wtf !
Does anyone else feel self-conscious about his own size when looking at another guy's "equipment" ?
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I need to separate my answer, to you, from the Homo-phobes that answered below.
It’s TOTALLY NORMAL to look, being curious about others, and it doesn’t mean you are gay!! I love that you ‘noticed’ the others, but their size is really irrelevant, as most women’s vagina’s are about 4-5 inches. When you penetrate, and you have much more than the average 6 inches, it can hurt her, so what’s the advantage to having 9 inches?
Most women that you would really want to be in a relationship with would prefer a man that is confident in himself, but cares about them, and what they like, rather than what the porn movies show!!
I don’t feel, at all ‘self-conscious’ because I know how my girlfriend likes to play, and she doesn’t want an ‘Elephant trunk!!” (She laughed at this post, that guys would think that ‘bigger is better’!!)
Don’t feel embarrassed, or like you aren’t enough!! Just show off what you have, and don’t care what they have!!
As for the ones who answered:
WOW!! SERIOUSLY HUGE group of homo-phobes answering!! Guys, relax!! It's not a crime to shower in the communal showers at the gym, and it doesn't make you "Gay' if you casually 'peek' at other guys, just to see if the African American guys are really all that!!
I"m really straight, and I ADORE women, but it's just human nature to 'peek' at other guys in the showers, or at urinals. . . Yeah, like you NEVER did!! It doesn't make you 'gay', being curious, and other guys are looking at you, too!!0