Did I lower his self-esteem?

I was having fun with this other guy as a friend, to the extent where I noticed this guy from afar and quite honestly didn’t care. I was enjoying being in the moment.



Anyways, he walked over and I barely acknowledged him, not to be rude, because I was confused, we’re not even close.



Got right back to my conversation, laughing, and forgot all about it.



The next time I saw him he was looking at me all wide-eyed and hurt.



I couldn’t help but laugh? Did he go home and compare himself to the guy or something? Because there’s really no comparison.


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  • First you ignore him and then you laugh at him?
    How would you feel about this is a guy did this to you?

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    • I didn't guffaw at him, I was merely amused.

      This guy, I've seen the way he treats other girls. If I wasn't good-looking I'm well aware of what he'd treat me like.

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    • Do you think the guy I was laughing with likely thought this too?

    • Can never be sure but it's highly likely that he noticed this. But that doesn't mean that he cared about how you treated that other guy.

What Guys Said 3

  • Always a joy to meet people like you.

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  • Probably not long-term.

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  • Do you feel good about yourself?

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What Girls Said 2

  • I don't see what you did wrong here.

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  • You probably just became one of those stuck-up bitches to him.

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