So soon I will be going to an OBGYN and I'm so nervous. I am a virgin so I am pretty tight down there I guess you could say and that just leads me to believe that the doctor putting their hands up there or doing any kind of test might hurt or be very uncomfortable... Please some advice?
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Seeing a gynecologist is pretty uncomfortable, not going to lie. It can also be pretty embarrassing. I guess that it's just good to remember that this is their job and they don't care, they see loads of these every day. Dealing with the discomfort of the exam itself isn't exactly easy, but you just think about something else and take deep breaths. It's over quickly and it usually doesn't hurt.
(This isn't exactly true for me all he time because I have a condition that can make the muscles in my vagina tighten and makes any penetration extremely painful. However, when my condition doesn't act up and I've had an examination, it's been fine.)0