Why can't I find a man who will talk to me and be honest and just get to know each other?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • I think the hardest thing you are going to find is, at your current stage, you're in that tough spot where a good number of men are already married, and the ones that aren't... well, there usually is a reason.

    What it sounds like you want is someone who is "down to earth". That's going to be a personality type that comes with certain attributes and preferences. For example, men who are looking for a serious relationship are statistically more likely to pay for a dating website like eharmony. Whereas, the more casual, one night stand types are going to gravitate towards things like Tindr.

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What Guys Said 8

  • Where are you meeting these dudes?
    Many men speak through several masks, that hide their true self

    Its the way they have been conditioned in society a virtuous man, would speak through no masks and use his real voice

    finding this man is hard, i am not even close to becoming like such man
    I would suggest you meet a man at a social gathering/group

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    • There isn't really any groups or places to meet people where I live

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    • Any recommendations

    • i have no idea
      Try finding a website or blog that has a community that shares your passion
      That way you can make connections with people who share the same interests

      thats all i can help you with
      If you are looking for a serious romantic relationship Eharmony would probably make a good choice

  • Well let me solve your problem young lady.

    @Keyspirits someone is in dire need of your service brother.

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  • Gender segregation does a lot of harm to social relations. And really, if you're looking for a relationship, then sex is on the table. If you're NOT looking for a relationship, then you have to explicitly state that just in case.

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  • If you look in the wrong places you won't find love
    and them phone apps/ dating sites/ chatlines i done
    all them never found no love..

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    • I don't think I'm going to find love I think that develops

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    • Or maybe I could message you lol

    • Yes sure more than welcome to add me so we can talk ;p ;)

  • We are still out there. You just have to look a bit harder for us.

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    • So are u one of those guys

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    • Okay

    • You can always make an account here and message me if you want. Though my activity on this site tends to be in spurts.

  • you're looking in the wrong places.

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  • because getting to know each other is the problem. YOU ARE ONE SIDED

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    • I want to get to know him and he gets to know me how is that one sided

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    • so that is the problem then, you want a relationship but are to passive to obtain it. Why don't you find guys who are also interested in relationships? Start with online dating and say "looking for a relationship"

    • I tried that it was one big mess after another

  • Because you haven't found me yet.

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    • You are nice but we have different views

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    • you got plenty of places to meet single dads. good luck with single men with no kids...

    • Yeah I know most guys won't take on a women with kids

What Girls Said 4

  • Let me know where you found them. ;D

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    • If I happen to find some I will let you know 😂

  • Maybe your looking in the wrong places? Also maybe ask him straight up blunt questions?

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    • I find out that scares them

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    • Yeah then anyone that won't answer your questions is just after booty. So they should be avoided

    • Yep I try to do that

  • Why can't we all? It's just our destiny.

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  • It's hard to find a good guy. But you can't wait for them to approach you. You have to approach people too

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