Okay so I was playing out scenarios in my head if I were to take that leap of faith to ask this one girl... Ahem... Just introduce myself to this one girl I find very attractive in my tutoring center.
My biggest fear isn't rejection. It's the fact she would assume I'm an old man trying to hit on her, "creeper". I'm 21 but I always have been told, at least since high school, I look 30 to 40 years old.
Do you think it's selfish of me to want a girl my own age even though I appear older and she would then be seen by others as "seeing someone who is way to old for her"?
Do you think I should instead look for a girl who is 30-50 years old? I'm not attracted to that. It seems like the less selfish thing to do though.
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First of all, you really don't look like an old man. Based on your picture, I would guess your age to be like 25 -- not 30 and definitely not 40.
I think getting new glasses would be a good idea. Something with thicker, darker frames, like this: 24.media.tumblr.com/...lf72isQCCD1qabm53o1_500.jpg The ones you have on in your pic do look a little outdated and old mannish. Otherwise, you look completely fine. It looks like you have a cool style, which is a major plus in my book so keep that up.
Anyway, of course you are allowed to date girls your own age. Sounds like you need to build some confidence in yourself. Maybe try working out; get those happy endorphins flowing and you'll not only benefit from the physical aspect, but also a mental one.0
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