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Absence of it as in doesn't feel intense, but you still get a positive feeling from them, or nothing at all?
If it's the latter, apathy is definitely worse. At least if you're feeling loved, but not as passionately/intensely as you'd wish to, you've got something to work with. If you feel like you're getting nothing from your s/o, you're really stuck between a rock and a hard place.0