Completely irrelevant to normal questions here, but I need help. My mom is a terrible mother first off. I truly hate her. I can't stand her and who she is. I have two brothers, one tried running away twice. I tried it a few times myself. The only one who hasn't is my brother, who has autism, and it seems he's literally at the heart of her bullshit frequently because he, basically, can't take full care of himself and express himself.
Basically, my mother doesn't listen to ANY of us. I'm moving out soon and she's aware that the minute I'm out, she'll probably never see or hear from me again for years. I'll only keep in contact to talk to my brothers, if she's the only way I can, but otherwise I want nothing to do with her. My brother is almost always gone to avoid her. My other brother, on the other hand, is really attached to her even though she's a complete bitch. Like she shuts us all out regularly, and he gets really distraught about that. So recently, he's began throwing things when he gets really angry or feels very left out, which is happening a lot now. She hasn't realized that and doesn't talk to us, she never does, but rather threatens us. She's always threatening to hit, slap, or punch us if we do things wrong, rather than ask us not to, figure out why we do what we did, or even talk. It's literally, "Do ____ again, and I'll bust/slap you! I dare you." And get all in our faces. I've actually shoved her away and dared her to fucking hit me then, and since then she hasn't. But my brother, my austic one, is scared of her sometimes and so is my other brother. Our step-dad does nothing but ignore her, my granma literally tries telling me I should mind my business, she knows what she's doing (funny), and I need to stay in a childs place. Like, no bitch, I'm 18 and worried about my brothers. I can't afford for I them to live with me, however. I'm staying in dorms an going to a university I can barely afford myself. I don't know what to do and I would like help
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Damn. Honestly, I could suggest something like getting others involved but government and foster care is probably not even a better option, it's pretty bad.
You could possibly set up an online fund, like gofundme or something, spread it around on tumblr if you can, I know a lot of tumblrs that help with fundraising and some for supporting transgender people who are from abusive homes and that's similar--no guarantees it would work, but there are people who get enough donations to fund entire surgeries.1