There's a abnormally large amount of guys out there that say they can't get a date no matter what they do or what advice they follow. They all can't be lying right? When they say they can't get a date because they're ugly they all can't be lying right? I see that guys who say this get treated as if they're blatantly lying, misogynistic, not trying hard enough, etc. Why is that? I know when a obese and/or unattractive women say they can't get a date, I'm pretty sure they know that their weight and/or looks might have everything to do with her being dateless right? I ask because there's literally endless questions on here and elsewhere online that are related or similar to the question I posted. With all of those similar questions, there's got to be some truth in it is what I think. What do you all think?
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Well, I mean, yeah, obviously unattractive people are going to struggle more than attractive people when it comes to dating.
Guys tend to be better at being blunt about the fact that looks play a pretty big part in all this, but they get labeled as shallow. Many women, for whatever reason, really hate being labeled as shallow and come up with a bunch of convoluted reasons as to why a guy is going dateless so these guys get all confused and waste their time jumping through hoops to no avail.
At the end of the day, unattractive people need to accept the fact that the deck is stacked against them when it comes to the difficulty levels of finding someone. They can always work on things and it's not impossible for them to find love of course, but this is just reality.0