Girls, So ladies, have you ever taken the initiative to ask a guy out?


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  • Yes, just for the sake of it. Life needs to be lived to the fullest. Risks must be taken or the chances will be lost.

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    • Finally someone who sees it my way!! Heck ladies if you like a dude tell him!

What Girls Said 18

  • Yep. Have been turned down politely a few times, have had a few guys laugh at me, have gotten a few smirks and a couple of 'yeah, right!'s. And a few have said yes. The guy I am with now is actually someone that I approached. It should work both ways when it comes to asking people out.

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  • I did not ask him out but he knew I liked him and he knew my interest in him was my reason for talking to him. He was a multi-millionaire with a perfect body, beautiful face, young in years and very good looking.

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  • No, never.

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  • No, and I'm not proud of that. I think it would be so fun. A sort of rush. I can't be scared anymore.

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  • Yeah I asked him to a dance, I made him a fortune cookie with the message you will have a wonderful time at winter ball! and showed up at his house and when he opened it I said so... wanna go to winter ball with me? And he said he had to think about it and then shut me down that Monday.

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    • so now you know what us guys go through!

    • Yeah but I mean I've always respected guys for asking girls out. You guys have to have some major guts xD I have asked multiple guys out or told them how I felt about them and it all just sucks xD I think the one success I had was when I asked my boyfriend to the dance like a year after the cookie incident by baking him a giant cookie

  • Obviously. I don't preach what I do not practice.

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  • yes I actually asked the guy im with right now to be mine lol and he thought it was cute cause I had the balls to do it

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  • I've only done this a couple of times after the guy has asked me out more than once already and I said no (but then changed my mind)

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  • Not specifically. But have told them I liked them or used to liked them in the middle of a conversation with them and that's when they stop talking to me lol

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  • I`ve always asked out to the guys I dated... And I never accepted a date with a guy that asked me first. I like to be the one who decides :)

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  • Nawwww, I'm a coward.

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  • once or twice i have done the asking but not to often

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  • Not really, but it seems like something I would do.

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  • A few times, yes. Usually the guys I ask are too busy to go on a date with me though :/

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    • Oooo they throw out the busy card!! huh?

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    • most women don't but if your busy and interested would you say? prob yes. if you busy and not interested you might not say im busy and not interested!! lol

    • yes id say those things if they were true. id say i waz interested if i waz and id make time if i waz really interested. if i wasn't interested id just say that cuz thats all thats relevant. if the person is really interested they would make time, the 'im busy' shit is annoying

  • Once and I don't think I will ever do it again.

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  • no, i would never do that i''m way too scared of rejection

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    • thats how some guys feel once you get turned down enough the surprise comes when they say yes!

  • Off course

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  • F$CK NO. EW. whatthehellkindaquestionisthisanyway?

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    • hahaha I guess your the only one who thinks that!! lol just a question calm down!

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