I'm extrememly religious and I don't believe in sex before marriage, that include no hjs or bjs. So basically my boyfriend and I only make out. He's not as religious as I am so sometimes it drives him a little crazy and I understand that he is sxually frustrated. We've been dating for almost a year so obviously he respects my views. But recently I found him flirting with someone he used to be physically with. They're still friends but he's very sexually attracted to her.
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As someone with very similar views to yourself, in my experience I've noticed it's difficult to maintain any kind of relationship with someone if sex is completely off the table, as unfortunately, many people believe sex "has" to be in a relationship for a relationship to be healthy or work (as well as the obvious animalistic urge of sex, which some people really struggle to control if they're denied it).
Sadly, as a response to this, I think it's important that if you have those views? You pretty much need to find someone else that does, too. Sex is just too important to an overwhelming majority of people, at least in the west, anyway.
Frankly, I'm shocked you have even lasted this long with your current boyfriend.0