I'm going of to college soon and I wanted to know if there was any advice you guys had for me? What kind of things should I be aware of? How do I not look like an embarassing freshman? How do I meet people and find friends? What if I hate my roomate or she's really weird? What kind of relationship should I have with my RA? How do I get a good reputation? How do I play the field without looking like a slut? Should I be careful about getting invovled with upperclassmen or frat boys? Will they even try to persue me anyways? And of they do is it just for easy sex? How do I avoid the freshman 15? How do I not look dumb at the gym while trying to avoid the freshman 15? As you can see I'm clueless.
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If you are an attractive girl, watch out for the frat boys. Just look at what has happened to some unsuspecting girls at fraternity parties. Even if you make one mistake, it's all over the Internet the next morning.
You will be extremely vulnerable to being used. They know you are clueless and will make all efforts to snare the freshman women.
Concentrate on your curriculum and get to know people before you go out with them. It's wise to go out in groups of just girls or guys together, but NEVER be out alone. The campus wolves are prowling and if they spot you by yourself, they will bring on the charm machine.
My mother had a saying: "Der Teufel hatte ein schönes Gesicht!" (The devil has a pretty face!)1