This is really beyond me, it happened to me 2 times today, a 21 years old girl was asking if she is fat or not and if she is undatable or not, and I gave her my honest opinion without being mean to her, I literally said "Tbh you are kinda fat, so yeah I guess that you are undatable (for me) ... I have no intention to hurt you or to be mean with you by saying this, I'm just being honest :) " then she started to insult me and telling me that she wouldn't date me anyway ( like if I was the one who is asking lol)
a 13 years old girl asked "I always get made fun of my nose and lips. Is my nose/lips too big?" ... And I literally said "You lips are fine, your nose is a little bit big tbh." ... The asker didn't say anything this time, but I had a dude who is telling me "check yo self" blah blah. But that dude doesn't understand that the way I look doesn't affect my honest opinion because the question is about that girl not about me or anyone who is giving an opinion, and after I explain this to him, he told me that I shouldn't have been honest with her because she is 13 and he claimed that I could come as a bully to her. Seriously? So lying would be a better solution or what?
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I tend not to answer those questions if I have nothing good to say and if they are really young because even though they want an honest opinion they still get hurt2