I am somewhat sensitive I guess... and my parents always tell me I need to have a thicker skin! But, I don't see why? people just shouldn't be mean in my opinion- im not sure if this immature thinking, but let me know what you think! 🌸😊
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I think that's an extremely entitled view. You expecting others to 'not be mean' and cater to you and your own personal needs is childish and unrealistic.
A) Why should they care about you?
B) Why do you think they should care about you?
C) Why do you feel entitled to be treated kindly but not feel obligated to prepare yourself for harshness?
The victim mentality is strong. Do you know how to not be a victim? You fight back, and in this case fighting back would be not letting things affect you/not expecting people to always be kind to you. You're a human; You're not an invincible being. Besides, if you're as thin skinned as you say, then I'm assuming you over-react to lots of things, thus blurring the line between rude and polite. Hell, guaranteed what I said was probably "too mean" for your tastes.
Someone could say I have the littlest dick on the planet, but me dismissing them is only going to anger them more than their shit attempt at an insult affected me. It's not hard to do, you're just a pretty woman so you've never had people tell you to shut up/correct whatever idiocy you've spewed because typically they want to fuck you.2