I need to increase my confidence. I am a total downer about my self. Mostly because of how I look. My body and my overall looks. how can i get over this
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You have to have patience. Accept that your life will not change over night. You have to work for what you want to achieve. You feel like this most likely because you think you haven't accomplished anything or that you don't look good enough to compete for the ladies or any combination of all sorts of potential negativities.
People find confidence in progression, it gives us insurance that we can make it if we wanted to. An example: I was stuck with criminals and having to lie, cheat and steal to survive. Also destroyed by drug abuse, weak and skinny. This was all like 7-8 years ago. Things are different today, owing mostly to military service and sense of discipline.
Bottom line is, I feel very self confident today. I don't care that I don't have a million euro house or the latest Mercedes. I have 2 jobs and a wonderful social circle. A sense of progression.0